Is there any guy that is actually good? Do any of them actually treat women good? I've never found one. Is there a such thing as love? Or is it all just something made up to make it okay to be monogomous? I thought I felt love once or twice but is it just a hope? A hope that someone could make you feel good about yourself. I just don't know anymore. Any thoughts?
2006-09-15 18:09:19 · 12 answers · asked by seths_hot_mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love will always exist. Dating is worth it if it is worth it to you.
2006-09-15 18:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. I think the reason why you question love is because you were told about happily ever after, and believe that love is an entity of its own that surrounds the lovers and forces them to commit to each other despite all odds and makes them have a happy life. This childish idea of love is as ridiculous as it sounds. Love does exist but its not what you think it is. Its about a commitment made to another human being. A strong commitment to work things out and build understanding trust and happiness with someone. Love Is not the emotion that spurs and creates an intense commitment, but the feeling we have after we succeed in committing to a worthwhile person.
2006-09-15 18:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is awesome!! It is like interviewing a potential friend that might turn into something more. Dating gives both of you a chance to get to know each other and find some similar interests. It also a good way to network. Date as much as you like. You don't have to become intimate right away. Take your time and figure out if the guy is worth it. Don't be afraid. Take a chance.
2006-09-15 18:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person. Like...there are good people and bad people in the world, and you just haven't met the "good" one.
Love....that is a good question...what is love? I never believed in love, and I doubt i ever will, but it would be nice to be in love. And everybody has a different opinion on love, so there is no real answer to "what is love" it all depends on how the person thinks and sees love as. It's more or less based on the "psychological" factor.
There are a lot of people who believe in love. I've talked to 3 of my guy friends about it and they all think that there is love out there in the world and that there is a "perfect someone" out there for them. And they're great guys. So you will find a guy like that one day.
And if you believe in love and believe that there is a perfect someone out there for you, then you'll find them. But keep in mind that it'll take you quite a bit of time to find him, but it'll all be worth it in the end. Good luck.
2006-09-15 18:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sifauna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what's happened in the past but I do know you cant force love. It happens when you least expect it (finding a man you "click" with). Im not trying to be mean but im going to be straight foward now. Have you ever looked at yourself and your ways? Self confidence is big. If you dont feel good about yourself you'll settle for men who are controlling. Start walking, do something for yourself to boost your confidence. If you go on a date, dont talk about past relationships and DO NOT talk about anything negative you think of yourself.
What you should do is act and talk as if this man sitting with you should feel privelaged to have a night with you.
Keep your head up girl. BUT WORK ON THAT SELF IMAGE AND SELF ESTEEM!!!! DONT SETTLE FOR ASSHOLES!
2006-09-15 18:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by triciasdish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally different for everyone. I dated my partner for 6 months before it became a full on relationship. I havent looked back since and am deeply in love with him. He is my lover, bestfriend and confidante. He is also the future father of my children and im now pregnant with our first child. He is over the moon about it and is just as excited as me about bubby. Love isnt just about hope and how someone makes you feel. Its also about how YOU make them feel. Love is a two way street and not one. It involves sacrifice, hard work and constant communication.
2006-09-15 18:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by gr33n_3y3d_grrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good guys are out there just difficult to find.
Try hanging out in new places, more upbeat positive places.
Take a home improvement class.
2006-09-15 18:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes a man perfect.
I dont know if its good for women too.
Try and try again, and maybe you will find someone lovable, unselfish, loving and truthful too.
some lady tried hard and found me.
no reason you cant find someone else or find me too.
2006-09-15 18:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Love
by Melissa Neiding
I love to see you smile
And I love knowing that I caused that smile
I love to see you happy
And I love knowing that I caused that happiness
I love to look into your beautiful eyes
And I love the way I fall into them
I love it when you hold my hand
And I love having the courage to grab and hold yours
I love to tease and torment you
And I love it when you tease and torment me
I love it when you touch me
And I love to touch you
I love rediscovering how beautiful you are each time I see you
And I love realizing how attractive you make me feel
I love wanting so badly to kiss you
And I love the way you want to take things slow
I love the fact that you still want to be my friend
And I love that I want to be yours
I love so many things about you
But the most important thing is:
I Love you!
2006-09-15 18:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you had some bad relationships. but please don't generalize that all guys are not worth it. you just haven't found the right guy yet. i suggest that you don't think of guys too much. find a nice hobby. eventually you will find the guy who would really treat you nice.
2006-09-15 18:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋