Ok guys, this is the deal. I helped this guy so much. I tried to be firends and do the good soul and good karma ****...sorry but I am pissed off. No sex. But we were together for 4 years. He has been down times, no money problem all the time...I just hooked him with a job at one of my good friends, who is a broker...whenever he needs me for his smoke, his gas his food or talk, or whatever he blows my phone off...and when i need him he starts ignoring me...I m just tired of being emotionally and financially used...please dont say anything sarcastic...I need good genuine replys...! Thanx for reading..!
2006-09-15 17:57:56 · 14 answers · asked by Msfunloving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like its time to turn your back on him. He is using you as a crutch. You want revenge knock the crutch from under him.
2006-09-15 18:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want revenge? What good will getting any revenge be for you? How will it make your life better?
Look, just stop thinking about this guy and move on. Obviously he was a user and a loser. So, what is the best thing to do? Cut your losses and get on with your life. Never talk to him again. Throw out your pictures with him. Just tell him you need to move on with your life and you can't do that if you are talking with him.
The bottom line is don't waste your energy or time on revenge for a guy that is obviously not worth your time.
2006-09-15 18:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no have got to get revenge at the boy. If he broke up with you and may not deliver you an evidence on why he broke up with then you definately simply do not take him again. It's as practical as that. Joseph D : )
2016-08-21 07:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a must get revenge on the boy. If he broke up with you and will not offer you an evidence on why he broke up with then you definately simply don't take him back. It can be as simple as that. Joseph D : )
2016-08-09 14:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably stop answering his calls directly and let my voice mail pick up. If his message is worth calling him back, then call him back. If he needs a stupid favor, don't call him back. It sounds to me that he is using you and you, rightfully so, are tired of it. Let someone else take care of him. You can still be his friend without spending money on him. Also, make up excuses. Tell him, "sorry I don't have any money right now." Or something along those lines.
2006-09-15 18:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Hate him!!!!
Remember all tha bad things 'bout him
2. Go on ur dating
It's his turn to pay all the fees, say that u dont bring
cash,card, etc. Take his money as much as u can
3. Find a man
He'll surprised if u suddenly leave him. He'll be like
a chicken without ur money supplies... hopefully he'll suicide
But firstly u have to forget ur love for him C'mon he's not that worth.....
2006-09-15 18:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds like you have put yourself out too much for this guy, and he has started taking you for granted. Pull back.. Do less..Be busy..If he really wants to be in a mature relationship with you, he will start to make more of an effort.
2006-09-15 18:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by tui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up you need a man not a little boy to take care of. Dont go for revenge. If you just stop you will have it..
2006-09-15 18:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by my_hart2hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cut him off and move on. Don't take his calls and refuse to see him. If he doesn't get the message and keeps hounding you, you can report him as a stalker to the police. Don't do anything foolish that can get you into trouble.
2006-09-15 18:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a pregnant person take a test for you, that will be good revenge, and if he says hes happy about it, in 2 weeks tell him you had an abortion, if he aint happy tell him it aint his
2006-09-15 18:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by jobugg257 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋