Me and my roommate split after a year. We were very close, I was a hugh part of his life as he was of mine. I fell in love, he was honest and did not want to go there with me afraid of loosing a good friendship. We had it all in our relationship accept for sex. He was everything to me and he is not gay. We camped together, family outings, the bars everything for a year, I thought it was going somewhere then he met someone they have been in seperable for two weeks it broke my heart. I moved out and have not spoken to him. My things are still there and I just do not want to go get them yet to not see him. It hurts I miss my friend.
2006-09-15 17:49:39 · 15 answers · asked by pookiepoo11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The word honest showed up . Good . Be thankful he was honest . I know he meant a lot to you as a friend and you have feelings he doesn't share . If you and he did all things together and didn't have sex . And you still fell in love with him . You know the real meaning of love . So many people do the sex thing and think they are in love . You are truly a rare person . I assume you are female . If so it even hurts more . Men don't have the same kind of thought process as women have . If he didn't have the same feelings for you, he only misses his friend . That's all . But take heart he might not get along with the person he is with now . He might start thinking he really had a better time in your company . Above all don't pine for him . Go get your things . Go when you know he won't be there . Take a friend with you . Better days are coming . You never know when love will just fall into your lap . You won't even see it coming .
2006-09-15 18:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no doubt he misses you, but does not want a relationship with you. I know it's not what you want to hear but it is better he leaves now, the longer you're with him the stronger the ties. It's not going to be easy and it will take some time before you can move on. This sounds like a guy you may think of fondly even after you're an old married lady. I'm an old married man and there is one gal I still think of fondly, but you know what? I wouldn't trade my wife for her now. Better things are coming, I know that sounds kind of cliche but it is true.
2006-09-16 01:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will always miss you. You will always own a piece of his heart no matter how old he grows or how long he is married. You were so wise and mature not to have sex. That would be a burning brand on him forever. You really showed your friendship to be worth something. Wrap it around you and cherish it.
Ask a friend to go get your stuff or to go with you.
2006-09-16 00:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a great friendship, don't let someone come between that. If it were meant to be then you two would be together. I know it hurts, but in the end, everything is going to be ok.
2006-09-16 00:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill or you will lose him, your friend, for good.
If he knows you feel this way about him,he wont want to come around for fear you will try and mess up anything he might have with a woman,like now. Let him know you wont interview in his relationships if that is what he's concerned about cause you atleast want him as your friend if nothing else.
2006-09-16 01:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss! I think he has lost more then he knows! A good friend is hard to find, and it sounds as if someday he may realize it. Maybe it will take time to call or see him but if it love it will work out, don't stop loving it's all we have in life. I have loved someone with no return it sucks. But if not him someone will love you and return your good feeling of love and life. I truly hope he soon realizes his loss and your his friend and true love................ mike m
2006-09-16 01:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by mike m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why he he .... Be yourself Ä°f you missed him do not wait Time is passing The postwomen is around him. Ä°f you dont want to loose why do you need a signature or papa or family to permit you to go bed together. Make a decision write them if there is money problem then maybe signature needed.
2006-09-16 00:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still is your friend with or with out a girlfriend nothing more and after a year of being a roomate with nothing happening then it was never meant to be...move on but dont desert you friend,,,,and yes im sure he does miss you why wouldnt he?? he has been a close friend of yours for some time now, call him and patch things up .do it today!!
2006-09-16 00:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by mary c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend currently is preoccupied with new fling so it is safe to say that he doesn't miss you at all or else he would have called. As you haven't heard anything from him, forget about him and move on with your own life. Send a friend around to collect your belongings.
2006-09-16 00:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant hold on to these feeling for him, cos he will never reciprocate them. when he told you that he didnt want to ruin the friendship or loose it, its a guys ways of saying 'im not attracted to you in that way, and it will never happen'. thats the sad truth.
2006-09-16 01:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋