well I know a girl who is pregnent but her mom does not know but her mom's friends knows and she didn't know about comdoms so she doesn't know how to tell her mom cause she might get in big trouble when her mom finds out so what should she do?
2006-09-15 17:32:17 · 16 answers · asked by racalex2005 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if she doesn't know about condoms then she shouldn't be having sex, that's 1st and for most. if her moms friend is truly her friend than her mom if she already doesn't know she will know soon. ur friend chose to be an adult and have sex so now she has to step up. She should tell her mother whats going on and how she feels about it. Then ask her mother what she feels about it and if the girl is a minor then they should discus together on what is the right road to take. hope everything works out for ur "friend". Good Luck
2006-09-15 17:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first is the obvious..she doesnt even sound old enough to have sex if she didnt know what a condom was or ever heard of one. The next thing to do is suck it up and tell her mom. I know it sucks but she is gonna find out anyway, better now than later. She will probably be very upset at first, especially if she is so young. But ultimatly it is her daughter and she loves her, and it will all work out in the end. She needs to go to the doc. as well so that she can make sure the baby is okay, she may have a hard pregnancy since she is so young.
2006-09-16 00:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly she should go in for a little advice from a counsellor or an elder, her Moms friend at this time will be the best, however she has to be approached with caution. If u are Indian I don't know if giving birth will be acceptable. Time is of essence so act fast and approach a Gynaecologist also and take steps as deemed fit (!!) but quickly. And do tell ur friend that she should learn a lesson from this for future. Good Luck
2006-09-16 00:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to tell. She may need to take another person with her...maybe her friends mother. Her mom will be mad and there is a possibility that her mom may want her to leave. She might have to go to a home for unwed moms. People need to gather around and help her. her mom may calm down and deal with it but she must be told for her to get used to the idea before the baby is too close. She will need to talk to someone, counselor at school, church or planned parent hood. she may not want to keep this baby and that's alright. many people want children that can't have them. She has a lot on her plate and all her friends need to be there and help her tell her mom and help her after,
2006-09-16 01:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, she needs to see a doctor to find out how far along she is and how to take care of herself. She also needs to talk to her mom. It would probably be advisable to have another adult she trusts (perhaps the mother's friend?) to be with her when she tells mom. Her mom's going to find out, you can't hide a pregnancy forever. There should be a public health nurse or some other agency she can go to for help to find a doctor and to deal with mom, they can also give her counselling and get her the information she needs to know about sex and birth control.
2006-09-16 00:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by hopebaymama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her mum and she also needs to speak to someone about the use of condoms. Although it is too late to stop her getting pregnant there are a lot of nasty things you can pick up by not using one. Pregnancy when you don't want it is bad enough but AIDS is worse!
THe girls mother will find out eventually so the sooner she does the better for all concerned
2006-09-16 00:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually her mom is going to find out. There is nothing to do but have your friend sit down and talk with her mom, woman to woman. The truth is bound to come out sooner or later. If she try and hide it, explain to her that she is going to make matters even worse. That is not good for anybody to go through. Do you and her a favor and have her talk with her mom. Since you know her, maybe you can be there for her as a friend to help her.
2006-09-16 00:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by rosepoems2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to tell her mom or dad or someone she feels she can trust. Maybe your friend doesn't feel like she can talk to her mother, obviously she did feel open enough to talk about having sex, birth control, etc. But maybe her mom wont react the way she thinks. Just give her a chance, before you go see an one about an abortion. Check out all your options.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-16 00:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She HAS to tell an adult. If not her mom then someone else who can help her tell her mom. She needs medical care and this is not going to go away! Better she tells her than someone else.
2006-09-16 00:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BETTER TELL IT TO YOUR MOM INSTEAD OF YOUR MOM FINDING IT OUT FROM OTHER PEOPLE!...abortion is a big NO NO!..its killinG!..a bad bad idea..let the baby live coz he has nothing to do with mistake you got into..let the baby see goD's creatIon!
2006-09-16 00:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by reenah002500 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋