Ok.. here is the thing. My boyfriend has not called me for two days. Should I call him? (we've had some problems lately with our relationship. I sent him a text but he didn't answer. The last time he called he said he will call me later, but he never did). I don't want to look like a looser. What should I do?
2006-09-15 16:59:01 · 22 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah call him and ask what the deal is, why hasn't he called you is he having mixed feelings. Get your cards out on the table.
Being played with emotionally is not good. You need to sit down with him and find out his intentions and about his feelings. you are not gonna look like a loser, trust me, you just want to know what's going on between you two and when things bother you like this just tell him, it's better to be open and honest than to hold things in.
2006-09-15 17:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by lacie_j_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in Philippines... send passaload or share-a-load and then a message telling him you sent him load just in case he had no load. Filipina girlfriends of mine do that to me when I don't text back. lol
Anyway... who says that the guy always has to call the girl. Pick up your phone, you silly girl, press the digits and call that guy! You know what? somewhere on this Answers thing... your bf is writing... "My gf never calls me. I don't want to look like a loser. Should I keep calling her or see if she really likes me enough to dial 7 numbers to talk to me." And you know the answers are all smart@$$ like... "dump her" or "get a new gf."
COME ON GIRL! Call that guy right now and don't act crazy or even ask why he didn't call. Just tell him you miss him and want to know if he would like to get together. Maybe you take him out to lunch. And flirt with him during lunch.
2006-09-15 17:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. I know it is hard to wait. But believe me if you do not call(really hard!!!!), he will get worried because guys are like that. As soon as they get to know that a girl wants them, they start making her run towards him. And the opposite is true exactly in the same way! If you just wait, it will disturb him and to see if you are really interested or not, he will give you a call. A man cannot admit that a girl is not chasing him at this stage!
2006-09-15 17:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games-seen it many times. He is trying to be the one to call all the shots-and most likely will break up with you when he gets the balls to do so. My advice-Break up with him! Take the power back.
2006-09-15 17:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by sleepy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that you are making enough attempts. So do not call him anymore. I suggest you let him be, maybe he is cheating or something like that. You do not want to be with him then. If you wants to be with you, he will contact you. so let him be.
2006-09-15 17:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl, Just move on. Love the one who love you.
2006-09-15 17:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Can`i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him and find a new boyfriend. he obviously doesn't care for you enough to have the common courtesy to call his girlfriend. get rid of him ASAP
2006-09-15 17:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call..life is too short for waiting!
2006-09-15 17:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to call you.....if you dont hear from him in say 2 more days then call him and ask what his problem is.
2006-09-15 17:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u should. maybe he didnt call u bcos he was a kind of busy and u shold call him so ur relation wont be broken..
2006-09-15 17:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by relyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋