What do i do? I really love this guy, i have loved him for 6 years.He was married but now hes divorced and after they split up me and him started to get close again and he said that he loves me, but now he is going to jail because of his ex-wife over domestic violence which never even happened! Cause she lied about everything! So what do i do? He ran from the cops , i have no idea where he's at, and i am very worried about him, cuz if he goes to jail then i will never see him again? And i just cant take that. Help?
Ok well i know that he is not guilty cuz for one my cousin jason was there and he saw the whole thing! And yea it makes him sound guilty, cuz he is running from the police, but hes not, and his wife is mad at me cuz she said that i ruined there marriage and i know i didnt cuz i live in West Virginia and they were living in FLorida at the time.And well thats kind of impossible.I just care for him so much and dont know where to turn? I know hes wrong, but i love him?
2006-09-15 16:08:24 · 15 answers · asked by juggalette606060 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Consider yourself lucky and run the opposite direction as fast as you can and forget about this guy. Why do you think he ran from the cops? Come on, you can do better.
2006-09-15 16:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is quite hard but all you have to do is start searching for him without taking any chances to attract the attention of police. Find him, tell him the truth about how you feel (even if he's already know) but ask him to turn himself at the police and ask Jason to be his eye-witnesses. Maybe this could solve the problem...about his ex-wife, just let her be...forget about him. If he don't want to turn up to the police, hide him... change his identity or something illegal. But to have a comfort love with him, make him turn up...this will be more easy.
2006-09-15 23:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by xanseviera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes to jail he won't be in there forever. I think you are overreacting or there's more to this story. A simple domestic case does not hold much jail time at all, even with running from the cops.
2006-09-15 23:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is even accused of domestic violence there has to be a reason. Remember, someone has to be proven guilty beyond a doubt to be incarcerated. If he is guilty, there is a lot of evidence besides he said she said. Find someone else! You may find that you can love someone even deeper.
2006-09-15 23:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by tod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe.
Make silence in your head. Complete silence. No more thinking about him or her, or the other guy, or the cops. None. Imagine yourself 10000 miles away from all of that, on a deserted island. Listen to your feelings.
Get a carrier.
2006-09-15 23:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by ibelieveicanfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's gonna be in jail longer since he decided to run. Aside from that, you can't help the way you feel. There is nothing you can do in this situation. I hope things work out for you.
2006-09-15 23:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you never see him again? He wouldn't go to jail for life!
If he goes just make sure you find him and keep in contact!
2006-09-15 23:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to butt out of the situation...He is MARRIED, how would you feel if you were married to him and he was flirting with someone else.....which is what will happen if you end up with him. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat.
2006-09-15 23:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by sassilass06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact your local P D office and see where he is being held. then you can set up visitions to see him and then there well be court and he well be given a lawer and you and your friend can tell your side of the story. good luck. and hang in there it well work it self out.
2006-09-15 23:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by macki4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jerry can handel this 1 no problem
2006-09-15 23:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by city 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋