what would you do if your best friend stop talking to you because she discover that you are lesbian?

Answer 1

I would stop referring to her as my best friend. If she was any kind of friend she would have never allow that to the a reason to stop being a friend.


But I guess she was just surprise and I hope she will realize that u being a lesbian will not rub off on her( which is how some silly people think)

She may also think that others will think she's a lesbian if other know that u r( thats silly of her to feel this way because ur still the same person u were b 4 u told her

If she does not return as ur friend then as much as it may hurt to hear it she's not worth it and she was never a true friend .

I have two cousin's who are lesbians and it didn't change the way me and the rest of the family feel about them, one of the girls who works at a store near by where I shop is a lesbian and I enjoy talking and joking around with her( I remember her saying that it was refreshing that I don't treat or look at her weird) I told her I don't have a problem with anyone who's gay or a lesbian.

But I do hope ur friend comes around and u and she can continue ur friendship.

Answer 2

I would be disappointed to learn that a friend has stopped talking to me for a reason such as that. I have made friends that I later found out were homosexual, & although I disagree with their choice of lifestyle, it didn't really affect me that much. I realised right away, that I valued their friendship far more than any feelings I had over their sexual preference.
You are probably both quite young, & your friend is very likely concerned about her own self image & fearfull of any stigma that may be projected unto her if she is seen around a lesbian.
That is an attitude that she will very likely come to regret when she matures enough to realize that she's lost a friend because of it.
Basically she is reacting this way out of fear. If you can find a way to assure her that HER life won't change significantly by keeping your friendship then you will probably see her come around.
Meanwhile, it's her loss.

Answer 3

Give her time to get used to the idea, its a pretty big thing to tell someone (not as hard as it would have been for you). After a while I would try to talk to her, let her ask any questions that she needs answered.

It will work itself out and if she can't accept it then she wasn't a very good friend to begin with.

Answer 4

First I dont believe in being a lesbian. I think you should get into a good bible belieing church . And see what God thinks of you being a lesbian. Im being judgement but I support your Idea of being a lesbian. That was not in Gods plan. Radar

Answer 5

Because she is probably shallow and not really your friend. But maybe she is just caught off guard by it and needs sometime to think. it might have been a total surprise and she doesn't know how to deal with it. If she is your friend fa real, give her space and let her deal with it her way. If she is really your friend, she will realize that she needs to love you for who you are and not who she thought you were. She will come around if she really is your friend, just give her the space and time she might need to deal with it.

Answer 6

Ah, well maybe she is in shock and doesn't know how to react at the moment. I'm sure in time things will workout. Maybe take a little break from your friend for a bit and talk again later.

Answer 7

Give her time!
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maybe u should leave her and get new best friend.
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u should stop to be lesbian if u r!

Sorry! :)

Answer 8

I would forget about that person cause they are not a real friend if they stopped talking to you for that reason. real friends are with you through thick and thin!

Answer 9

Give her time to process this first. I'm sure it was a shock to her obviously. If your best friends...then she will eventually be excepting of it.

Answer 10

I would be hurt. I would also realize that she is not someone I'd want to be friends with anyway if she decides who she wants to be friends with based on sexuality.