thanks for the answers. i did forget to mention that before the paternity question thing came up he just recently told me he was still missing the things his child's mother used to do to him. (who he is not sure if the child is his) while he was with me!!! keep in mind she had a sexual relationship with his friend while he was still with her. could it be that he does not want to do the paternity test because he still wants to hang on to the fact that she is his babymom? it seems like if he finds out the child is his it will really hit home that she did all those things behind his back yet he loved her so much he doesn't want to know if the child is his. maybe he doesn't want to let go. i need some opinion as to what to do from here. cause am half way out the door. i don't want to compete with his child's mom. anyone??????
2006-09-15 15:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by sexylousleo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
honestly sweetheart...this is a no win battle...if he loved her enough to forgive her...he loves her...and that's where his heart is. No that doesn't mean that he doesn't love you too because he probably does but for him to feel that he loved her so much and she is potentially his child's mother...holds a special place in his heart. and most of the time it is hard to compete with that because you tend to lost being you came AFTER her. it's not your fault...it's best to remove yourself from the situation as quick as you can if your feelings aren't too deep...if they are talk to him about it...you can only pray and give him your all if you want to make it work...good luck
2006-09-15 15:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of Payton Place? Perhaps ALL of you should move there. You could turn it into a reality television program and make a pile of cash.
Good luck with that.
2006-09-15 22:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chanc eif it ends up being his kid then say it was fun but if its not his then hes yours and the other chcik can hit the road
2006-09-15 23:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by The Ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand the whole situation.
2006-09-15 22:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's gonna tell you what he thinks ou want to hear in order for you to pull your panties off
2006-09-15 22:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it woman
2006-09-15 22:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋