you see, it is a long-distance relationship. i'm in canada and she's in philippines. do you guys think it will work out? we're like just 6 months only and and just 4 months being together physically. so, any words for me?? i do love her, of course. but there were things that made me distrust her coz of her lies and empty promises last april-june. i got over it, but i certainly have doubts on her.
2006-09-15 15:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by rod_dollente 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry hun..but i dont think long distance relationships work out too well you miss them to much and you want to be with some one close by.
you want someone that you can talk to in person and not just on the phone. Its to hard. I mean you can still be friends and all just not in a relationship. Then you are just lonely and miss your girlfriend but cant go out with anybody. Trust me my bf moved to california and i was so sad when i talked to him because i knew that i could not see him and it constanly reminded me that he was halfway around the country. Eventually we stopped calling each other and lost touch so we broke up.
2006-09-15 15:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes alot for a long distance relationship to work out, you're already saying, you have reasons not to trust her, as time goes on, things will only get worse. I am happily married now, but there was a time when I was single and in a long distance relationship myself. I was in Missouri and he was in Illinois and even though the two states aren't far from each other, it was still this huge gap between us. We thought we were in love, but as time went by, things got more and more complicated. We longed to hold each others hands and do the things that lovers do. We talked on the telephone constantly, but after a while, talking on the telephone wasn't enough, all we got out of it, was a high phone bill. He started seeing a girl in his town and I started seeing a guy in my town, it was a wonderful feeling, being able to touch and see the one you're involved with, in person. If I were you, I would cut all ties with her, it's not worth it. Knowledge is the key to everything, you already know you can't trust her, get off the path you're on, it's only leading to destruction, good luck.
2006-09-15 23:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in "love" with this girl or are you in "lust" for her? 'Cause if you already distrust her because you think she's lying to you. Then you need to let her go. Because long distance relationships DO NOT work. I mean you live in Canada and she lives in the Philippines.
I don't mean to sarcastic or anything. But is she using you for money? If you think you can't trust her, just break up. You really can't know what she is doing while you're in Canada. You know?
2006-09-15 22:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by darkhunterfan65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally all the long distance relationships never work to me. in a relationship the 3 things u have to have to make things work is trust, communication, things in common to be able to meet in the middle. If you cant trust someone in the relationship then there isnt much you can work with. Because you'll keep wondering and that just makes it worse. I hope things work out.. good luck!
2006-09-15 22:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a long distance relationship is hard, i really think it is too hard for her to be that far from you and for you too . All i can say is let go of her you could still find someone there and if you two are really meant for each other GOD would make a way.
2006-09-15 22:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wuz in the same position you were, its hard beging in long-distance relationship,because you can't see the person when u want to its hard to call them,but sometimes if you really like this person then you'll want to be w/ them ,but its hard at the same time. sometimes you juss half to move on and get on w/ your life. but do wuts best for you. best of luck! - kiki93
2006-09-15 23:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by kiki93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends...if she loves you too, maybe you can make it through. if both of you is destined to be together after all, then there's no problem...
2006-09-15 23:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Madeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never gonna work,trust me as I say again,its never going to work
2006-09-15 22:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have officially lost your mind kid.
2006-09-15 22:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋