Why are there more interracial relationships between Black Men and White women than White Men and Black Women?

Question

I think this is one of the most stupidest questions that people ask. You will always see more of any culture of men with White Women than you will see with Black Women. Most men are similar in this aspect. The interracial relationships between Black Women and White Men are not based on the same foundation as Black Men and White Women. Interracial relationships between Black Men and White Women are base on a natural attraction of Black Men’s masculinity and White Women’s femininity; but the interracial relationships between Black Women and White Men of today are more so based on anger, frustration, resentment and retaliation towards interracial relationships between Black Men and White Women. This is why Black Men get so much criticism from Black Women for interracially dating and White Women get so much criticism from White Men for interracially dating. Interracial relationships between White Men and Black Women are not based on the same foundation as they were years ago. Years ago most White guys who did date and marry Black Women were really culturally open minded and they really were into Black Women and it was mutual. I know one or two couples and they are two of the nicest couples I’ve ever met. But today it seems to be more based on a frustration that there are a lot of pretty White Girls dating Black Guys, so these White guys are starting to feel slighted like Black Women feel about the successful Black Guys dating White Women. So many White Men and Black Women come together on this common ground, (laboratory relationships). But these relationships don’t last very long because it’s founded on anger and frustration of having to settle for something that they usually wouldn’t in any other circumstances. This seems to be why many Black Women who are in interracial relationships tend to still be mean to me and criticized my interracial relationship as: if it wasn’t for me having a White girlfriend, they wouldn’t have to date a White guy. Maybe that’s why you see more interracial relationships between Black Men and White Women opposed to White Men and Black Women; you can’t comparing a natural attraction to a new kind of companionship settlement.

Answer 1

Quite the long question to try and follow. I'm in an interracial relationship with a black man and I am white. I used to date white men but then found myself finding black men more attactive and more fun to be around. My husband has only dated white women cause he finds their personality more appealing and black women tend to have chip on their shoulder or a lot of anger. I do agree that black women get mad when we are dating their so called men because there are only a small percentage of good black guys out their and they should have them.

Answer 2

Maybe some insecure guys who are single and can't get a date feel this way, but the great majority of white men simply dont care. White men are still the most preferred race of men to date and marry, as indicated by OKCupid and Are you interested fb app, which when combined have over 3million female members.White men know, that 90% of WW exclusively prefer white guys,and out of the remaining,the great majority just want black men for sex.If any race is really affected and angry by interracial, its most certainly Asian men, not only are Asian women dissing them for white men, but all other women are simply rejecting them l.

Answer 3

lol stop with all the negativity lol not all black women are angry most of us don't care about who others date. Seeing a black man with a woman of another race affects me in no way, the only man that I care about is the black man that I have who I treat like an absolute king, and in return he worships the ground that I walk on

Answer 4

That isn't true. If you like someone you like someone no matter what race they are.

By the way can you give me some statistics showing that more black men date white women as aopposed to black women?

Thanks in advance.

Answer 5

I agree in part with your spin on things. Most black men that I know are dating white women because they think it elevates their status somehow in society & for the white women it can most times be true affection or those who believe they're getting a larger package, so to speak. In the case of the white men/ black women scenario, a lot of white men may date black women out of sheer curiosity to see what the other side is like, but would rather have a white woman as his wife. For the black women, it may be a case of frustration with black men not coming up to scratch, true interest, assuming the white man has financial solidity or in some cases out of pure curiosity. I have absolutely no problems with interracial relationships if they're based on true affection. I totally disagree with the attitude copped by a lot of black females as you say, that "if it weren't for white women grabbing you guys up, there'd be more for us". I do hate however when black men go around saying that they're connecting with a white woman because black women have nothing, and that a white one can take care of him financially.
And what do you mean by "white women's femininity?" Is that supposed to mean that we don't have any?

Answer 6

I date white men and have no resentment whatsoever against black man/white woman relationships.
I smile when I see other interracial relationships; I'm glad to see someone else found love without worrying about race.

Answer 7

The real question should be "Why do Black men get jealous and squirm that Black women DON'T get mad that they are with a White women, when they were secretly hoping she would."

I don't know of any Black woman or White man that pays attention to interracial couples. Black men seem to be the ones angry with a chip on their shoulder, starring at people they normally wouldn't, talking extra loudly, knocking over items in a store, holding their baby up real high so someone will hopefully notice they are with a White woman. The most racist people out their are Black men who interracial date, who only hope for trouble so they can have something to whine about. Because there really is nothing to whine about in the current time period.

I don't know what Black men went through in the 80's, but racism against couples sure does not happen these days. Today Black men are reversing the racism. Black women are the most desired women on the planet, Black men follow them around and get rejected, then in anger date a White woman who does not really like them and calls them a "N" behind their back. Often never getting married and running off to raise the baby in the White culture where Buckwheat is not allowed to step foot on Jethros porch. That is why you don't see any elderly Black male interracial couples in nursing homes, because Black men are in a fabricated relationship with a culture who does not accept them.

The Black men then go crazy from the breach in their masculinity, which is why you see all this crime from Black men who are hooked up with White women, but no crime from Black women with White men, or White men with Black women. The least criminalistic coupling is a White man with an Asian or a Black woman. White men even go crazy with their own women, because the relationship is cultural, expected, planned and forced, but not natural.

Black women are very picky about who they date and only date if they actually like someone. Plus Black men have greasy brillo pad hair that holds odor and blue gums, and Europeas don't have such strange features. Women like to look at pretty things and touch silky hair while orgasming, not the Rocky Horror Picture show. That is why Black women can be picky and particular and Black men can sit and rant about racism that doesn't exist and imagine negative attention that never actually came about.