i so sick to death of yelling at him, his addition to video games matters more to him then giving me time, i need someones help becasue i am gonna snap soon!!Nothing works, not talking to him, not yelling, and i tried just not talking to him at all, that just made me worse, look it is friday night i am on the internet cause he cant even stop his game to take me out!
2006-09-15 15:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by jessica d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would recommend you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start working at getting a whole new life as this one isn't working for you
2006-09-15 15:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is addicted to video games, and as with all addictions it takes precedence over most all other things in his life. Your talks and rantings and ravings are considered to be a small price for him to have to pay, to keep his addiction; just as not having any heat in a home might be a small price to pay for a drug addiction. And the more miserable the price becomes to pay, the more they desire that which makes them the happiest.
What would you do if he was addicted to drugs, and you wanted to help him? You would seek counseling, right? And if he wants to save the relationship, he will have to give up his addiction. For you will not tolerate it forever, and things will only get increasingly more upsetting for both of you. He must see the light of day, and what his addiction may cost him, from a non-biased, qualified third party's point of view. For unless he realizes his need to give up that addiction, nothing anyone says or does is likely to change his mind; at least not, until it is already too late to possibly save what he might suddenly then realize was worth far more to him than his addiction allowed him to see. He needs help.
2006-09-15 22:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl put yo foot down.its time for u to leave.i wouldnt put a video game before anone.not even a friend.sit and talk to him.if it doesnt work,there are many more man out there that knows how 2 treat a woman.u can do bad by urself
2006-09-15 22:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by India™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've watched out for all that when you were just friends. If the guy doesn't respect you before you get into the relationship, or deeper into it, how can you expect him to now? Not saying you deserve the way he's treating you, but I wouldn't have dated him knowing what kind of person he is.
2006-09-15 22:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw the video game in the trash. Worst case scenario, he's a kid and don't know how to treat a lady. If you leave him, he won't notice because his video game is like a new car. It's like that.
2006-09-15 22:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a man not a child that plays video games. you need to get out a find a man that knows your worth!
2006-09-15 23:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting around for? Go out if you want to! I would think if you weren't relying on him for entertainment, he might be more interested in going out and having fun. Right now, he's probably feeling stuck with you.
2006-09-15 22:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, if he notices that you're gone maybe he'll ask you why. he does not seem to love or respect you. I'm sorry for you. You are wasting your time and your life on this toad. Move on.
2006-09-15 22:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "man?" As in a non-husband that's living with you? That could be your problem right there.
2006-09-15 22:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also experiencing that matter now but i think just show to him that you are so bored with him express what you feel don't talk to him until he realized what he's doing
2006-09-15 22:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by sexysachiko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋