I talked to my sister about having a surprise birthday party for my younger sister. It was my idea and I was in on it. We talked to her daughter regarding the party and she thought it would be a nice idea. We are all going to pay for it. . Invites went out (I never got to see them before) and my name wasn't on them at all. Like I had nothing to do with it. Their's both were. Should I be mad?????
2006-09-15 14:58:59 · 16 answers · asked by mtzstaz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes!
You should never speak to that low down skunk ever again.
2006-09-15 15:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by newt_peabody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about mad, but certainly I would say something after the party. That was kind of undermining on someones part and it was not a very nice thing to do. I would speak to the sister who printed the invitations and ask her why she did it, AFTER the party. That would be the sister who is probably jealous of you. I say after the party because by now it is too late to do anything and you don't want to spoil the atmosphere of the party by others knowing that there is "funk" between you and your sister. I'm sorry that it happened to you, but be the bigger person and help your younger sister enjoy her birthday! Grace & Peace!
2006-09-15 22:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by CAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be normal to, i know i would, but dont boil your head over it, just go to the party n have a good time, it would be fun to see their faces when u show up n have a blast at the party like nothing happen. Be brave n be the biggest person, dont even tell them anything. Just enjoy life, n do good when others dont, that wont give people a chance to talk bad about u at all.
2006-09-15 22:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by L.A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting angry is really not going to do anything about it. Did your sister enjoy herself at the party that you had a hand in setting up for her? Really isn't it more about her and not who's name got put on the invitations. I'm sure your younger sister realizes your part in it, who cares about the rest.
2006-09-15 22:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They really liked your idea, didn't they!
Being mad won't change anything. If you need to, tell your sister and your niece you noticed they forgot to put your name on the invitations. You can talk to your younger sister, or not, about it later on after the party if you want to.
2006-09-15 22:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question your sisters as to why your name was left off the invitations. I would also let the birthday girl know that you had initiated the concept and let her know you hope she enjoyed the party
2006-09-15 22:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by jezabell_1963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before being anything, I would be finding the reason why your name was omitted. Maybe it was a printer error, maybe it was an omission by mistake. Being mad is not the answer, it will only ruin your enjoyment of the planning and the party itself.
2006-09-16 00:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by g49joeybethl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't blame you for being mad, along with hurt, and disappointed in them. That was, to me, a pretty underhanded thing to do to someone. I'd be asking where the heck they were coming from pulling somethink like that. In other words I'd be totally hurt and pissed off at the same time. Definitely wouldn't try to plan anything again with them.
2006-09-15 22:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! They better have a good explaination why! So find out which of them is responsible for the decision to keep you name off the invite, & aske her. WHY?
2006-09-15 22:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes you should be mad... You know there are stangers in this world that can treat you ugly, you dont need you own family doing it...
I bet they have something like this before. This cant be the first time they have stabbed you in the back,,, Think back and see what you remeber ....I bet you will find more!!!!
2006-09-15 22:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by bailey lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd be pissed, but I'd also say that since they didn't put your name on it you shouldn't have to help pay... it's the people who's name is on the invites that are throwing the gig
2006-09-15 22:02:23 · answer #11 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋