I been dating my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now and we have been leaving together for 2 1/2 years. Everyday when he get in from work he act like I don't exist. He never speaks to me or talk to me. I'm starting to feel very depressed about. I talk to him about in Sunday that he doesn't communicate with me. I feel like I'm in a relationship by myself. Only time he communicate with me is 2 AM when he want to have sex. I have no idea what to do.
2006-09-15 14:44:25 · 16 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hate to tell you this, but it sounds like the relationship has gone stale, as far as he's concerned. It's a possibility, that he has another person on his mind, just from what you're saying, it sure sounds like it. In my household, my husband and I always tell one another that we love each other before going to work and when we get home, we always ask about how work was that day. He's not even acknowledging you, when you go to work and get home. If you only have sex in common, there's a serious problem and if he treated me like that, he wouldn't get sex or anything else from me, until he started communicating with me and telling me what the problem is, so that maybe we could talk about it and work it out, if possible. Have you asked him what's wrong? If he tells you nothing's wrong, don't you dare believe him, because he would be lying. I suggest you have a serious conversation with him and let him know, if there is another person in his life, he needs to let one of you go, you deserve better and you don't want to be sharing your man, with anybody else. Tell him to shape up or ship out, I know it's easier said than done, but what's the point of living a miserable life, when there is a happy one, waiting for you, somewhere out there. I truly hope i'm wrong about him seeing someone else, good luck and keep your head up.
2006-09-15 15:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer, GET OUT. Why would you stay in a one sided relationship.
He could be just unhappy with your relationship or have some serious depression problems. Do you want to spend your life like this? Sometimes change is very hard, but love yourself enough to make that change.
Good Luck
2006-09-15 14:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's marrying someone else overseas is what I think. Some jerks do this. I would not be ok with my husband having 2 lives. Which is what he has. One here and one there.
2016-03-27 03:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to move on. I'm sure you love him but when its starts to make you feel badly about yourself and he is treating you like crap - its time to move on. Maybe once you leave he will realize what a great chick you are!! If he doesn't then you are all the better for having left him.
2006-09-15 14:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out on the sex. Don't give him anything that he wants until he gives you what you want and that's communication. Don't back down either. Check him Girl!! Check him!
2006-09-15 14:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and try to talk to him. I fhe still doesnt have a valid reason for his behavior than it is time to end the relationship.
2006-09-15 14:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang gurl u need to really sit down & talk to ur man. Serious.. one on one. He mayb stressed out or depressed or mayb even cheating. I dunno 4 sure but go ahead and give him a good talkin to ok? I hope everything is alrite.
2006-09-15 14:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, get out. if all he wants is sex he is not worth it. think more of yourself then that. you are better then he is.there is life out there. i found that answer several years back. don't look for love. true love will find you. good luck
2006-09-15 14:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 2.5 years of living together, now its an issue?
2006-09-15 14:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that he hates his job and when he gets home he's tired and when he's going to work he don't wanna go there so he basically doesn't look forward to anything in life
2006-09-15 14:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋