I really like this guy,but wonder if he likes me back. wut should I do tell him or forget about it? the bad thing is he's one of my close friends! and i don't won't to ruin are friendship over that! PLEZ HELP!!!
2006-09-15 14:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by kiki93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetness, Speak your heart and dont bite your tounge. I had that same issue with a man that I liked we knew each other for 7-8 years and I just now bearly told him how I felt and he been feeling the same way. You have to say how you feel no matter the outcome and if he is a real friend he would give you a real and respectful answer. To make the long story short the guy and I are together to this day and we are more than friends now.
2006-09-15 14:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Leosr1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Yes it is hard.My daughter is living with her "best friend" after 4 yrs of going on and off again.I still do not know if it will work. If you are young chances are the romance won't last. I don't know how old you are,but I 'd just wait it out.Friendship is so worth it.Does he act jealous when you bring up boys or talk to other guys? He might get scared if you directly go and tell him and chances are he might make the first move if he is interested.Good Luck!
2006-09-15 14:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by *ELiZaH* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell him if you are willing to accept him as a b/f now and remember when you get with a friend you are ready know how they are so try to weigh the odds does he cheat on girls that he has been with does he talk about females badly because wants you take that extra step and he was doing those thing to other girls remember you well now be another girl to him if he is like the things i said above you need to stay friends but if he is cool and he never really degrades females then i say go for it he can be a good catch
2006-09-15 14:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by monica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to pull away from him (a little) and see if he chases you. I don't mean just start blowing him off and ignoring him - just don't be the one to call or go by for a while - let him. You might just find out he's interested in the same way. In my experience and opinion the best relationships and marriages START with friends first.
2006-09-15 14:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by LG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm strange usually in a boy and girl friendship the guy fall in love first but if i was u i would just keep it at the friend stage because when y'all become in a relationship most likely y'all get awkward around each other and break up less than 6 months
2006-09-15 14:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try activities together that would a little hand holding, like maybe learning rollerblading...Go out with a group of his and your friends: they might sense how he feels about you...If you know him less than a year, just keep things as they are--sometimes the love spark takes time to catch on fire...If he thinks you are AFTER him he may back away--so play it cool until you know more about his likes and dislikes...Good Luck ! !
2006-09-15 15:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend how you feel. Tell him you don't want to ruin your friendship, but you just had to let him know how you felt.
2006-09-15 14:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lesley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the word out secondhand. Tell somebody else, they'll snitch on you and get the ball rolling. If he don't say nuffin, it's cool, if he wit it he'll make a move and you got your man.
2006-09-15 14:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ju Lover Supreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve someone better...theirs a lot of best guy their..but a good friend u can't find the good one,don't lose the friendship that would last forever.
2006-09-15 14:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by ashly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extra nice to him, more attendants, more attention, laugh at his jokes, see if his respond is the same.
If he likes you he will be like a potty in your hands and only then you can tell him your feelings.
Otherwise, stay away.
2006-09-15 14:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kamran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋