2006-09-15 13:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Am not so sure it's confidence you need as much as to require men you meet and date to respect and honor you. We teach people how to treat us and your guys need to learn that you are a good, worthwhile, valuable person who will not allow guys to trample on your needs, thoughts, ideas, and wishes. If you have and maintain those standards only the good guys will remain.
2006-09-15 14:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well as someone experienced in attracting and catching the wrong man, I can say that looking back I would have run like hell the other direction. So my advice to you is to take care of yourself, get a manicure, take a class, learn a new language, whatever, just better yourself, show yourself respect. Think of taking care of you right now, nothing else. Also think about if you had a daughter would you want her to date this particular guy? If not, you shouldn't either.
Like I said realize you have value and are a special person. God made one of you and only one of you, so therefore that makes you special. Think about 20-30 years from now, do you want to be waking up next to these fools you are dating, or do want to just wait - work on yourself by doing what I said above, and then when you least expect it, there he will be...
Hope that helps.
2006-09-15 14:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Basically you need to forget about men right now and work on yourself. I your confidence is low then you need to figure out who you are. Pray and ask God what has he called you to do in life, also you can wiat on God and let him put you together with yout sould mate. dont go looking because you will find all the wrong things
2006-09-15 14:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Leosr1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just got to know who is right for you. Im sure you know the good ones from the bad ones. You are smarter than that...give youself credit on knowing who is right for you. Dont settle for anyone you know you cant bring home to meet the family.
2006-09-15 14:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not even about being confident because even the most confident individual can get played it just about knowing what you want andn what you dont want to put up with some people are just not ready to be on the level that your ready to be on and you have to just move on
2006-09-15 14:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no wrong man in the world,there are just different men.so i think you could improve your knowlege instead of your confidence.
2006-09-15 14:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by ctruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right I am ignorant but you asked when the world series was so youre stupid. good day baseball fan
2006-09-16 07:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by tim b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beleave in yourself , expect to be treated like a lady and all will be right for you
2006-09-15 14:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By always remembering you deserve better :)
2006-09-15 13:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out more
2006-09-15 13:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋