with ppl who breath really loud Ex.my grandma my bro my friends ppl at school
2006-09-15 13:49:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ok im 12 use small words
2006-09-15 14:06:14 · update #1
You need to look at why it frustrates you. If you can allow yourself to let people just be who they are, and do what they do, and not let it bother you, then your life will be a lot more fun, because people can be very funny.
2006-09-15 14:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Namaste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason it is "wrong" to become "really frustrated" is that it harms no one but you. The question is this.... what benefit do you derive from being frustrated? Give it some thought....
Take some time and really ask yourself what it is about "loud breath" that bothers you? Close your eyes, and listen to loud breath, listen intently and become aware of what is going on within yourself. What is happening at a subtle emotional level, Is there anxiety there, or fear, or anger.... what is going on within yourself?
What does it remind you of, what memory is just below the surface, and can you bring it up to experience it?
What might happen if you were to experience yourself as peaceful and contented? Is the need to be upset too comfortable to not be frustrated?
These are just some things I would do to try and understand my frustration.... in an attempt to achieve some peace within myself.
Peace
2006-09-15 15:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not God. Others have their problems too. Take some time to do things you enjoy doing - no frustration there, is there?
Btw, when you want to speak with someone, try calling out their names first, then make sure they heard you call them before you begin asking or saying what you want to say. It takes at least 2 sec to get someone's attention to tune in to you. This is respectful.
It is not wrong to get frustrated, but don't you go hit someone or remain frustrated (the perpetual frown on your face will freeze if you remain in that state for too long) for a long time.
I talk to you as a concerned auntie...:)
2006-09-15 15:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really bothering you, you might want to look into desensitization. Much like a phobia (unwarranted fear), emotional reactions of this type can benefit from desensitization therapy. The reason that you react this way is really of minor importance, but the fact that you are bothered by this fairly normal behavior in this way need not continue to be a consistent source of frustration.
2006-09-15 14:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Magic One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting frustrated causes more damage to self than others !
So it is not worth while. Instead decide upon an action , the choice being situation based, to keep oneself away from undesirable surrounding !
2006-09-15 13:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being frustrated is usually a sign of inner conflict / fears, are you fearful of your loved ones being sick or ill
2006-09-15 15:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I get frustrated a lot
2006-09-15 15:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't wrong but your going to have to learn to live with it because ppl who do that seem to be all around you.
2006-09-15 14:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Peels... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grandmother may have lung problems and need oxygen- have her see a doctor.
2006-09-15 13:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋