My girlfriend lied about losing her virginity to me. When she had lost it to a previous boyfriend. I had lost my virginity to her. For some reason I feel very violated. I feel like she almost cheated on me in a way. Are my feelings right? And what should I do now?
2006-09-15 13:47:57 · 9 answers · asked by ForgeryOfRomance 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think you have a right to be upset and i feel like maybe she played with your feelings. what you should do about it? if you love her enough, try to understand why she lied and move on. don't keep finding fault with her if she apologized and you forgave her. trust me bitterness and angur doesn't go good in a relationship. or tell her you can't live with the fact that she lied and move on without her if you can't forgive her. or start over. a clean slate is great. good luck and try to forgive her. its the best. don't miss out on a good thing if you can forgive this once.
2006-09-15 14:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she didn't "cheat" on you--just settle down. But she did LIE.
Did you tell her in the beginning that you'd only do it with a virgin? Or maybe she said she was one just to make YOU feel better about being one.
Find out why she lied to you. If she just lied for the sake of lying then dump her. If she lied to "protect" your ego or to be with you because she loved you, cut her a little slack.
2006-09-15 20:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since she lied to you about something this important? Kick her to the curb- and tell her to get back with in you like 10 years when she's become more trustworthy
YOU, need to go out and meet more women and get some experience with the other sex. On the other hand, remember that every time you have sex with someone, you lose a part of your soul which is then replaced by scar tissue.
2006-09-15 22:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure, I know you definetly have a right to be upset and losing your virginity is a very big but personal thing. Did she explain to you why she lied? You need to sit down and have a talk get everything out and talk about it explain to her how you feel and that you are not sure if you want to stay with her.
2006-09-15 21:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to feel lied to; not a good sign that she's lying about something that's important to you.
tell her how you feel; figure out if she's going to keep lying to you about other things
2006-09-15 21:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 confront her with ur feelings so that u can reach a solution instead of lyin 2 her lik she did 2 u
ofcoarse thats incase that u love her!
2006-09-15 21:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be upset about it. just talk to her and make sure that from now on she'll tell the truth and so will you. everything will be out in the open and you'll have no secrets.
2006-09-15 21:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gidget 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She'll tell you many more lies in the future, if she hasn't already.
2006-09-15 21:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Without truth, there is no trust.
2006-09-16 14:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by June smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋