I met this guy online, and we've been emailing each other for some time now. We have such a good connection, or at least I thought so. Suddenly, he stopped replying my mail, saying that he was busy.
2006-09-15 13:36:46 · 11 answers · asked by angela 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Ya, chances are if you met him online or on some matching site, he's also corresponding to a few other girls and lost interest in you. It happened to me too!
2006-09-15 13:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by blued79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long's the gap now since he stopped?
If he stopped emailing you for a long time now, then you have to think and have an assessment. Did you guys have a smooth friend or love relationship? How deep is the closeness? When you both communicate with each other, do you securely feel that you are important to him? If you are in doubt with the answers, then possibilities are, he is no longer interested with you and he had found some things to do and will just tell you that he's busy which is surely an alibi.
But if you're kinda or completely sure that the answer to those queries are all positive, then wait for some more time. Maybe, he's really busy. Is he working or what? You can't ever tell what's going on with him since it was an online mate, unless both of you were so close that it would be just fine to call him and demand an explanation. Dont lose hope but dont get your self too attached to him if you dont have any commitment.
Did you tried all ways of asking him? If you did so, then what you should do now, is to engage yourself in any other thing that will keep your mind away from him. We dont want to appear clingy and desperate to them, we are to be catch by them. If he comes back, good for you but if he dont, accept, there are more worthy than him.
2006-09-15 13:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by SassyGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was afraid for the relationship to develop anymore due to it being online. or maybe he found someone in real life that sparked his interest. there's no reason sweating someone who won't return your emails, or says they're too busy. you're never too busy for someone u care about, if its real feelings. i've learned that throughout my crazy life experiences. find someone else just as interesting to keep your mind off of this guy. he's not worth it if he knows it bothers u and he still won't explain. and if boredom is part of the reason, PLAY SOME YAHOO GAMES ONLINE! :-)
2006-09-15 13:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by nay-nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. He's found himself someone in real time.
Did you guys ever get together off-line? If not, then I hold to the above statement.
I'm sorry, it really sucks when this happens. Good luck.
2006-09-15 15:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not feel for u the way u feel for him and he doesnt have the heart to tell u the truth so his way of not talkin to u is saying hes too busy to talk all the time but then again he could actually be busy but it is unlikely bc if you reallly wanna talk to sum one ull make time for them
2006-09-15 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably busy talking to someone else online, sorry but it happened to me!
2006-09-15 13:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by helper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is busy. It happens. He's probably on YA answering peoples questions.
2006-09-15 13:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by luvmysoldier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably found a more interesting online pal.
2006-09-15 13:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you. Get over it.
2006-09-15 13:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by timjim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋