Okay well my bff has a friend she has known longer then me they spend every waking moment together and call me when I am home alone I don't know why im jelous I just wish I was included. But she will always be my friend
2006-09-15 13:33:36 · 17 answers · asked by hammie d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're jealous because you're not included in her life as much anymore & you feel left out @ times. What you should do, is sit down with your bestfriend & tell her how you feel w/o her other friend. Maybe then, she'll realize that she's making you feel like an outsider...don't be scared to let her know how you feel, it may be for the better...good luck! Hope everything turns out well.
2006-09-15 13:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Emiliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time people are jealious because of there on insecurities. Dont feel bad everyone has jealiousy even if they dont admit it. Try to focus of more positive things ...That helps me a lot. No matter what dont hang around anyone more jealous than you that will only make the matter worse.
2006-09-15 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by All hail 2 the "Queen" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, unlike guys, ditch their girlfriends when they have a guy. It's horrible. Guys will maintain their guy friends and also spend the time with the girl. But, guys are cool that way. I've watched it with my brothers, my deceased husband, my fiance', and my three sons. It's something in them women just don't have.
2006-09-15 13:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this exact same problem!!
Well what worked for me is to let them have their moments of memories , but then spend time and get to know the both of them.
2006-09-15 13:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal believe it or not. It's natural to feel left out. Maybe ask each friend if ya'll can do somethin sometime? maybe just one on one or as a group.
2006-09-15 13:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by mommy911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're jealous because you want to spend time with her.
just tell her that u feel weird that shes hangin out with that friend more than you, and itd be nice if all of ya can hang out together so maybe you can become with friends with her...
2006-09-15 13:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because YOU want to be in her life all the time. I understand why you feel that way.Just tell her how you feel and ask if you can hang out 2.
2006-09-15 13:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by kimmi_10_53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend and do the same back and see if she starts calling or something.
2006-09-15 13:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to involve to their activities and get to know her too. This is just probably purely friendship between the two of them.
Unless, he gave you reason to validate the word "jealousy".
Don't keep it to yourself, it is fair to discuss it with him once and for all.
2006-09-15 13:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been here ... know how you feel ... it's normal to be jealous but maybe you should try getting to know the other person too so that you'll be included more often.
2006-09-15 13:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋