I have a crush on a guy I work with, but he's gay.. I feel so shallow liking a gay guy when there's so many straight ones to choose from!! I don't know what it is about him, but whenever I decide to try to find someone new, I see him and i can't help but talk to him and invite him out...we're friends which makes this so much harder...the worst part( or maybe the best part) is I think he likes me too, I know he's gay, I do!! but I can't help but wonder why he treats me the way he does...he treats me so much different than the other girls he talks to and he always comes to talk to me at work now..about..nothing really!! I don't get him!! and he's always looking at me , but whan i point that out he says he was looking at something else.. What do you think??
2006-09-15 13:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do';t know what's going on, but now people at work are asking me questions about him all the time, like we are a couple or something..help!!
2006-09-15 13:32:01 · update #1
So, your Friends. Great, that's all it will ever be
2006-09-15 13:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just friendly - maybe he didn't have for a long time girl as a friend. He doesn't do anything so stupid but just he is how he is.
People as you because is the nature of people to put the nose where don't belong. Don't worry.
2006-09-15 20:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be both ways and the friendship you and him have might be confusing him...[ trust me if he likes both you really do not want a love thing with him, he will not change his ways, because he is who he is and no one or nothing can change the fact...] i understand that a crush for someone will be hard to change to a real friendship, but try to change your feelings, and enjoy your friendship as friends only. you will be happier and so will he....you can relax and really bond like brother and sister and that is the best kind of friends one can have....be yourself and accept him as he will accept you.....
2006-09-15 20:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him...seriously and ask him if he ever concidered being BI or if he knows for sure that he's straight out gay or maybe just bi? Good luck hun
2006-09-15 20:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by mommy911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best advice i can give you is to talk to him about how you feel. asking what we think really wont get you anywhere...were not him and we cant tell you what exactly to do about it. even if he's not interested in you, you still have one hell of a friend there! dont let that one go!
2006-09-15 20:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now do you believe that he is gay?Because if he were he would not be checking you out.
2006-09-15 20:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he's questioning his sexuality as well ... i would just tell him how you feel and maybe if he rejects you, you'll be able to move on. good luck!!
2006-09-15 20:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not not just be striaght foward and ask him if he likes you.
2006-09-15 20:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-09-15 20:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by caitlyn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋