ok heres the thing i had lots of bad relationships such as joke bet and guys putting me down well my bf and i know each other since well birth (im very serious) well anyways weve been liking each other for ages and soon enough we started dating in jr high we were love at first site everything it seemed as if he was perfect well anyways that all changed when i went out with my mates and he and my twin were staying at the house setting up the hang out party well when i got home i went upstairs to go to my room but oddly the door was locked (and i know it was wide open when i left) so i went down stairs to get my best friend kevin to help me with it (and he did by knocking the fricken thing down)
anyways he did and their was my boyfriend on top of my twin sister christy with his and her shirt off well we went through the whole drama crap and why did u? thing that was a 1 year ago and we r still 2gether and so far hes good but i keep on thinking about it but how can i forget about it?
2006-09-15 13:26:20 · 4 answers · asked by christina bedingfield 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I doubt you'll forget it. A lot of people can forgive and move on, i don't know if i would be one of them. Is there a chance your sister tricked him? Or are they equally guilty? The fact that you are still together means either you've been able to move on, but if it is something you are going to continue to worry about maybe it is something that the two of you need to have a serious talk about even if he doesn't feel like rehashing the past , because it sounds like it is still fresh pain to you.
2006-09-15 13:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a big mistake and your twin sister did too. If he was with you then he should have stayed loyal to you, especially if y'all have known each other your whole lives. But it sounds like y'all are both still young and young people do make mistakes. (So do old ones, but by the time you get older you will probably have a better idea of what you should put up with and what not to put up with.)
If it has been a year and it still bothers you to think about it, then it sounds like the two of you should go your separate ways. That kind of tension (wondering if he can be trusted) won't be good for either of you. Maybe y'all should try backing off to friends and enjoy dating around a bit more. If it's meant to be, then y'all will get back together after you have had a few more experiences. If not, then it sounds like there's still hope of you remaining friends.
2006-09-15 20:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not respect you, I bet you he will do it again, it is only a matter of time. They where both at fault, what excuse could the have given you? (it just happened) same old same old. But if you are really serious about this relationship, The two of you go for counseling, so you can get this off your chest, and you can move on with your life!!
2006-09-15 20:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the mother ******. You cant trust a bastard like ihm girl. Dump him but before that slap him.and tear his penis out.
2006-09-15 20:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋