My girl says she is turned on when i get angry i got no idea why so she will now and then try her best to piss me off, i seriosuly want to knock her out but just before i feel like hitting her she will get naked and we have sex, i think she really has problems but im not sure who to see about this kind of thing im really getting annoyed wit her but i love her alot, i tell my family and friends about it they think it is funny but i really dont think its funny at all, who can i talk to about this stuff?
2006-09-15 13:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by Blasta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't talk to anyone else about this. She is into S&M and you are only asking for trouble. Dump her and find a normal girl.
2006-09-15 13:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs professional help. You're right. It's not funny. If she doesn't believe her behavior is a problem she will probably not go for therapy. It certainly is not a healthy sexual relationship. Not a healthy relationship in any way if she "gets off" on pissing you off. If she won't get help, you go for yourself. Maybe she'll eventually join you. You need to learn how to get out of this relationship if she won't get help. It will only get worse. Obviously you know that "knocking her out" isn't the answer. Get some help sooner rather than later. God bless!
2006-09-15 14:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek out some professional counseling. Even if it's what she wants you would still be responsible, you could still be arrested and do time if she gets hurt. It sounds like you need to take a brake to show her that this is something that really bothers you. Next time this happens DON'T GIVE IN. Let her see that this behavior does not turn YOU on.
2006-09-15 13:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should seek counseling from a therapist, and the sooner, the better. For someone to be turned on when you get angry just isn't right. She may or may not be aware of it, but I honestly think she's asking for trouble
2006-09-15 13:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really needs help. She is seeking abuse and you are the one to supply it. Just because you have great sex after she gets you angry doesn't mean there isn't a problem.
2006-09-15 13:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a friend who experienced the same situation. She had problems with her father and was taking it out on her boyfriend. My friend loved her, talked with her and she got counseling. It helped turn her life around...and his.
2006-09-15 13:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to talk to a shrink. Maybe you can go with her. Let her know that there is a type of rough sex that she might like more.
2006-09-15 13:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by newlittleoneintexas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds screwed up i think she needs to get some therapy and i would'nt advise you to go and knock her out that just leads to domestic abuse even if she asks you to get angry refuse to get angry you both need to sit down and talk to her about this before it goes to far and gently tell her she might need to go and see someone about this sexual desire for you to get angry
2006-09-15 13:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes angry sex because it is more passionate. so you need to find some way to get her to find her passion in a positive way rather than a negative way.
2006-09-15 13:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by maisyday07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋