I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. Just recently i left for college in Wisconsin, i live in Washington. I didnt want to go, but i feel like it is my obligation to follow through because my parents are paying for it. Now i really want to go back to him. I am not going to quit school but i do want to go home. I want to transfer to a school but should I wait until next semester (which is in a few months) or just transfer at the end of the year?
2006-09-15 13:13:27 · 18 answers · asked by karlie11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IM NOT QUITTING SCHOOL. IM NOT RETARDED. I was just wondering if i should come home now or at the end of the year.
2006-09-15 13:22:52 · update #1
Follow your gut. But use common sense. Remember he's your boyfriend not your husband. There is a difference. Think about how this decision will effect your life in 5 or 10 years. Would you be going back home if it wasn't for him? Want if you do go home and things don't work out? Would you regret transferring schools?
2006-09-15 13:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by L'teefaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... if its meant to be then everything will work out and you can always transfer next summer or fall... this is a time in your life when your studies have to come first...the sooner you finish school the more time you will have to be in a relationship. Be a success in your own right before trying to be what someone else wants.... get to know who you are or can be away from the pressure of being the way that everything / everyone at home has molded you to be so far .. love is wonderful and its even better you can put your 'full-self" into the relationship.... Take the time to find that self.... make new friends and see where your life in this new place takes you...you may find that you don't want to go home after all...
If he loves you he'll understand.... and only want what is best for you and for you to be happy....
2006-09-15 13:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by American Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... don't get all offended here but.... you're young and you really need to take some time away from everyone and everything that's "norm" in your life and give your new life a try. You'll develop a lot of new and different ideas, styles and tastes over the next few years. Being away from your family and friends is a great way to try on these new adventures. Give yourself a year... if you're not happy, then change schools. Don't base your life's decisions on a guy. If he's the right one, he'll be there in a year... or more if you decide where you're at now is where you want to finish out your schooling.
Good luck!
2006-09-15 13:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay in school til the end of the year. You might feel differently. But dont stay because you feel an obligation to your parents. Be honest with them and tell them you want to transfer.
2006-09-15 13:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is worth it, he will wait for you. If you are still under the age of 30, stay in school, you are too young to think of settling down anyhow!. Maybe you can look into uni's or colleges in WA, to transfer, but whatever you do, finish what you started, you won't regret it.
2006-09-15 13:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by lollipops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever sacrifice your future for anybody!!!! If this boy and you are trulyl meant to be together than you're relationship will survive the distance. Long distance, I believe, is just a test of love. Most fail because the love invested was artifical.
2006-09-15 13:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're LEGALLY grown at 18, yet once you're nevertheless technically living mutually with your mom and dad, you do not have a decision interior the challenge. you should completely circulate out and not be based on your mom and dad formerly you could anticipate to call the photographs on your guy or woman life. Your mom and dad do not pick you derailing your educational or expert profession by ability of having knocked-up. they don't pick to be caught with you PLUS a infant.
2016-10-15 01:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me.I know it seems like u can't live without him but u have to realize that u can.What happens if u give up school there and later find out you two end up breaking up.Stay and get your schooling done.If he really loves u he will wait.Good luck
2006-09-15 13:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason he can't move to Wisconsin? That would be the best scenario. You could start by helping him look for a job and apartment there.
2006-09-15 13:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a opportunity of a life time, do not blow it, stay in school, and why should you have to be closer to him next year? do not do it, you need to concentrate on school, and if you are near him you are going to not be focused on school, If he loves you, it is not going to go bad, so it can wait. Stick with school, so you can be independent, and always have your own!!
2006-09-15 13:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋