She's a really nice, beautiful, caring person... I just don't understand what happens... We are having sex and sometimes I am unable to finish... I wonder if it was because I started masturbating at a young age?
Any help would be great...
I'm just confused... Did anyone else run into this problem?
2006-09-15 13:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by DJ Mach Z-Ro 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I could guess that you are just too anxious about being able to be the best for her. I say calm down and relax. Breath deep and even and tell yourself several times, slowly, that there is nothing I will do that will mess this up. Because she loves me regardless. Say that up to at least 10 times in the mirror and then go into the bedroom and make it a totally sensual experience, go slow, extended foreplay, start by kissing lightly over each area of her skin as you take her clothes off, and then go into more lingering touches like licking over her nipples and blowing air over the wetness. Anything to relax your mind and body enough to when the time is right and she is fully on edge lay back and give her the control and tell her to ride you like never before. No joke, I have heard many guys spaz out because its up to them to make everything right and good and have control in the bedroom, but try these methods and even try new routines than the standard stuff you normally do. It might relax and loosen you up more. Hell even let her take the lead and do the extended foreplay on you for hours. Good luck and hope this helps.
2006-09-15 13:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, I don't think that masturbating when you were young had anything to do with it unless this is the kind of stimulation you are used to in order to ejaculate, this is an issue you need to talk with your girlfriend about, if after experimenting in the bedroom does not work, you can always go see an urologist and ask him to check your prostate, this can affect a man from "finishing" and staying erect.
2006-09-15 20:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,masturbating at an early age has nothing to d with it. Maybe you need her to do something in your foreplay to get you more excited like maybe get down on you for a little while until you can't stand it and then you F*** the H*** out of her and you will surely finish.
2006-09-15 20:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not pleased enough, she is not doing something right. I have never had that problem. Thank god.
2006-09-15 20:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by newlittleoneintexas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problen with my bf try to concentrate on pleasing your self
2006-09-15 20:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errrmmm... Gay?
2006-09-15 20:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not her it's u...
2006-09-15 20:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋