I am 13 and never had a boyfriend. What am I doing wrong??
2006-09-15 13:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by lol 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nothing. Don't rush dating, even group dating. Stay in small packs of friends when you go out, even though you may want more. Remember, guys mature (not just physically) later than we do. The only real woman they love is their mothers.
2006-09-15 14:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by gamerzaddiction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Guys at that age are scared to death of Girls and most fake everything just to seem cool. Just you wait, your time will come. Don't force it, don't think less of yourself, and don't sell yourself cheap (that is make yourself to be like a hooker0 just to get a boys attention. Be friendly to the guys and they will be friendly back to you! show interest in what they do and they will talk to you!
Here is an interesting story from my son's High school! There was this girl who in her freshman year could have been considered a bit plain. She was a great student, friendly to everyone, and when she ocassionally dressed up, she was quite attractive. She did'nt usually wear makeup and dressed very conservatively. Most of the guys liked her as a friend, and classmate. Everyone was confortable around her. This went on until her Junior year. because of her friendliness, and her kind manner towards everyone,she was chosen as a class representative on the Homecoming court.
When the evening came of homecoming, and she appeared on the stage for the ceremony, she had been dressed up and made up professionally. The entire football stadium was spellbound by her beauty and charm. She made the Seniors and othes on the court look like ugly ducklings, and everyone knew it. Form that day on, even though she went back to dressing the way she always had, the guys begged her for dates, which she refused because she was working towards scholarships. Today, she is happily engaged to a doctor, and she is a nurse. She had 4 years of college paid for in full because of her work ethic and study. She is legendary at the school. You could be at yours.
2006-09-15 21:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Richard B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. Enjoy freedom while you can. You probably want one because you are lonely. I think you need a friend more than trying to get a boyfriend. If you only want one to be cool or because others do, don't even bother getting one until you are old enough to know what having a relationship is supposed to be like.
2006-09-15 21:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13 to and i hav never had a boyfriend
your probly not doing anything wrong
the guys are just being stupid
ya, sorry i'm not a guy but i answered anyway
2006-09-15 20:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by alphabet soup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you dont need a boyfriend you are still a child act like one for a little longer like a year or so
2006-09-15 20:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't start dating until your freshman year in high school.
2006-09-15 20:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it, im 15 and i dont have 1
2006-09-15 22:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lonely
2006-09-15 21:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so worried about it...talk to me I can help...strangenate259@sbcglobal.net
2006-09-16 02:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Asperon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋