When i got home i went to my computer and he accidently left open his mysapce account. When i looked at it he was e-mailing girls saying that they were pretty and of they were single. When i comfronted him about it he claimed that he was only being friendly so that they would come to a party that he and his friends throw....he claims he loves me with all of his heart and that he has'nt cheated. What should i do?????!?!? -Lost and confused
2006-09-15 12:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope.........sorry, sweetie.....He broke the rules!! He is giving you "lip service". If this is your definition of "love" and accept it then you have no complaints. If you accept garbage......you will get garbage! Think about it!
2006-09-15 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if it was truly an accident that he left his my-space account open for you to see. Perhaps he wanted you to see it, though I don't know why. Maybe now is the time for you to evaluate your relationship with him. You don't come right out and say it, but it appears that you and he are sexually active (since he spent the night while you were at work). One thing that so many young people have not been taught is that sexual intimacy should be saved for after you are married. Marriage is a commitment to love each other and stay together, no matter what, for the rest of your lives. You haven't known this man long enough to be sexually involved. Sex without the commitment of marriage is not healthy. I don't know if he cheated by talking to these girls, but it does seem like he's flirting with them. Talk to God about this relationship. Ask Him if this is the man He wants you to spend your life with. He loves you and is waiting to be invited into your life. I pray you will listen to God's leading for your life. God bless you, dear one.
2006-09-15 20:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would ditch this guy. Not only is he a liar he is also a cheater. The internet is a horrible place, some people think talking to other girls or guys is cheating. I think that if you would feel that it is cheating by tellling someone that they are cute and want to meet then you are taking things too far. I found out recently that my ex was talking to other girls on the internet and it made me feel really uncomfortable because he was hiding it, it makes me think what else he was hiding. Find someone that is more grown up and is willing to be truthful and honest in front of and behind your back.
2006-09-15 19:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl let him go. You got the proof right there. You saw it for yourself. If he loved you he would NOT have disrespected you & e-mailed girls right there in your own house on your OWN computer. Why would he want some random girls to go to his friends party. You should be the only girl he's asking to go that party! Don't let him convince you of nothing else. I know it will be hard but it's better you found out know & not later down the road since you love him. He got caught slipping, if he is stupid enough to leave that open in your house girl he's definetly cheating!
Good luck & keep strong girl!
2006-09-15 19:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Casper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definite Red Flag,
I went out with this guy for over a year, he told me he loved me, and I was totally blind, time and time again, while i was at work he went on my computer and looked up young girls to chat with, and also to got them to send him pictures. I was totally in love with him, and in the end my heart got broken bad. They don't change. My ex used that excuse to, that he never cheated, but i feel if they r going on the computer and doing that behind your back it is total cheating!! lose the loser!! cheers!!
2006-09-15 19:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by moe c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotional cheating is still cheating, no need to be lost and confused about this one, life is too short, and there are so many more men out there to have a trusting relationship with.
Think more of yourself, you are worth more than what this guy will give you.
2006-09-15 20:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And what seems to be the problem? The man you love is emailing pretty women to come to a party he's throwing.... Hello? Wake up! The only pretty women h should be emailing to come to this party is YOU. Kick him to the curb.
2006-09-15 19:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sue ZQ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a clue. if hasnt cheated yet, he's trying. at least you found out after only 3 months rather than down the line. dont be one of those stupid people who have to catch him in the act.
2006-09-15 19:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by tim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loose him, hes a liar. This is only the start of his BS. Consider yourself lucky you found him out at the start and not months down the road.
2006-09-15 19:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me. Date a real man that cares about you.
2006-09-15 19:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by xlr8r3_17003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋