What is the best response to friends who seem to have lost it.?
My husband and i have been friends with this couple for a few years, actually my husband and the guy have been friends forever ever since elementary school. Recently b/c of work/college and so on we havent been able to hang out as often. Though we were close to them we noticed that at many times they were very shallow when it came to money, class, jobs, ppl and so on. Now out of nowhere the wife is writing messages to me on my msm messenger )offline messages) that say "you husband is cheating on u u stupid ***** **** rot in hell" and "wow we havent done anything in awhile I guess u guys think u are better than us oh well no big loss have a nice fu*$ing day" I have tried to call them and stop over and talk to them. I sent her a message that said i was concerned about her. I dont know what else to do.
Alright my husband does know of the things she has done and has been trying to call his buddy for 3 days. We have only
2006-09-15 12:21:18 · 3 answers · asked by mnmcop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, insecure friends...hwew
to deal with them...
fight back, coz u dont know what else they are capable of doing against u. and it is important that u know what is her reason for doing this, maybe u hurt her unconciously. look for her and confront her but dont start the fight, be calm.
2006-09-15 12:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They seem very petty and hurt that you don't hang out as much anymore. I would let the friendship go if they continue to now ignore you both.
2006-09-15 12:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people aren't your friends, they are baggage. The best response to your so called friend is: Get a f***ing grip.
2006-09-15 12:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Doodlebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋