we havent had sex 4 4months,we r both 21 and weve had it 2gether b4,im so close 2splitting up wiv her cos wen i mention it she just doesnt listen,its driving me crazy cos its nt normal and theres plenty of girls out there,am i wasting my time im so frustrated wiv ur relationship is just so plain wivout sex,iv had enough,wat can i do
2006-09-15 12:15:16 · 18 answers · asked by LITTLEB06 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
God her Mum must love you?! What a catch.
2006-09-15 12:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of you has the right to leave the other for any reason, especially since you aren't married, no kids, etc.
If you want to leave her because she got a bad haircut, that's entirely up to you.
People will say that you are immature for leaving her because she won't have sex, but sexual compatibility DOES play a role in a relationship. If the two of you really don't agree on this issue, it will be a problem
If the two of you really didn't agree on money, it would be a similar situation. Disagreement on a single issue can make a relationship difficult if the disagreement is bad enough.
The bottom line; if you were really happy with her, you wouldn't be asking this question anyway. You each need to find someone else with whom you are more compatible.
2006-09-15 19:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with each other then you should try to work out what it is that has caused a problem in your sex life.
If you feel that you are both pulling in different directions and the sex life has suffered for it, or plainly not in love with each other then you should move on.
21 is far too early to be having a relationship without an eager sex life. Sex is very important to the intimacy and basic construction of a relationship
Good luck to you. I hope you make a choice that enables you to be happy
2006-09-15 19:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by marliboco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, please learn to type better.
Ok, being in a relationship does not mean it is all about sex. Sure it's fine to be in a relationship and have sex but not to be in a relationship TO have sex. Just be careful.
You wil lwant to ask your girlfriend what she thinks about and if you really don't think she listens to you, tell her how you feel about it and find a way to listen to eachother.
But if you really don't enjoy your relationship (forget the sex part for a moment), then you should see where it is going. If it isn't great and going no where, talk to her. If you really watn/ need to break up. Then thats your desision.
But keep in mind she does deserve someone who actually care about her. If you can't provide that, then leave. If you can, then do it and do it now.
2006-09-15 19:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by slashspeeds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes obviosly isnt comfortable about something did you know that sex makes up 50% percent of the relationship,,you need to ask her wats wrong and get into a serious chat about it ligthly but firm, sex is a sign of valueing each other and releasing that emotion, release of energy to one another if there is nothing left then you best leave breakup and find someone more compatitble to your needs.
2006-09-15 19:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy10 S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women lose interest in men if they get the impression they only want sex. Sounds like she's lost interest in you. Do you love her? If not, then go. It will be the best for both of you.
2006-09-15 19:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Belinda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should leave her, maybe she is cheatin on u and is gettin it somewhere else. u both need a relationship with communication and it sounds like this one is lackin that severley. maybe without sex u have realised all the little things that u dont like about her because u have noticed it more now.
2006-09-15 19:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by zebra_stripes01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't just dump someone cause your not getting sex maybe shes bored try different things take her out look after her love her etc don't dump her
2006-09-17 17:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont sound 21 you ssound like a 7th grader and type like one too
2006-09-15 19:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is the only reason you're with her, YES, split up with her. She can do better.
2006-09-15 19:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋