ok well my friend lupita and i want to go to the fair this sunday. my other friend stefanie is coming with us too but we dont want her too because shes mad at us right now and is being a b*tch but she is supposivly mad but she still calls lupita to talk on the phone. but anywaiz we dont want to go with her but how do we tell her without making her even more mad and by not lying a lot?
please help?
--Britnii
2006-09-15 11:35:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to dodge her. like make up and excuse and say she smells
2006-09-15 11:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her if there is something going on you need to know about because lately you have noticed a change in her behavior toward you. If she gets all snotty then tell her that this is exactly what your talking about. I would say I want to go to the fair and have a good time. I don't mind if you go as long as you are going to let this problem go at least while we are there. If not then maybe Lupita and I should go alone. This may make her more angry but it will at least show her that this temper tantrum she has been throwing is making her friends think she is a b***h.
2006-09-15 18:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you don't want her to come if she's just going to bring you down. Explain that you are going to the fair to have some fun, and if she's going to be mad at you while you are there, then whats the point in her coming with you? If anything, have her meet you there, then ditch out on her after a couple of hours if she's still mad at you, explain that you just lost her in the crowd or something. be honest with her though, she'll appreciate it more, and that way she wont get mad at you for lying.
2006-09-15 18:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check that lupita feels the same way as you, and then you have to decide how well she would take the truth, if you think that she will be too unhappy, then you will have to invent an elaborate lie, just make sure she doesn't end up coming as well and meets you there!
2006-09-15 18:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she mad. can it be resolved by the time you go to the fair. try telling her the truth that it might not be a good idea to go together. because of the problems you are having and you really want to stay friends maybe you just need some time apart to fix the problems and that you really do not want to lose her as a friend her friendship means to much to you
2006-09-15 18:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure lupita doesn't want her to go? maybe she's just mad at you. if you don't want her to go, you should tell her. but one of two things can happen, you'll either make up at the fair, or you'll just get madder at eachother for ruining each others fun...
2006-09-15 18:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bribaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get her back as a Freind? if you do let her go and if you do not want her as a freind then tell her you do not want her to go cause you do not like her. IZf you give in to her for being a b**** then she will think it is ok. If you stand your ground and let her know that you do not like it one of 2 things will happen. 1. She will stop being a b**** and become your friend again or. 2. She will continue being a b**** and you will not have her as a freind
2006-09-15 18:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, I don't even know why she's still going with you if she's mad. But...I guess you could be like "when you're mad like this it's really hard to have a good time" or something.
2006-09-15 18:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her mad. Tell her she is a b # tch and you do not want to go with her. I am sure you won't be troubled by her again.
2006-09-15 18:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your friend then u need to both talk to her.I believe if u really thought she was your friend u would talk with her and want her to go with u. I think there might be some jealous feelings on your part.If I'm wrong then u need to talk to her cuz if she was truely mad she wouldn't be talking to either of u.Something is bothering her and u might want to find out what it is..If you are truely her friend.
2006-09-15 18:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All part of growing up. Making decisions and standing by them. If you decide to leave her out next time it might be you left out.
Talk about it find out why she is mad, and what can be done about it? It might turn out it was all a misunderstanding.
2006-09-15 18:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by curious me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋