2006-09-15 10:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by knotkrzy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I fantasize about being with a girl all the time. I would probably go for it if the situation were presented to me. The thing is, I don't want to have a relationship wtih a girl, I just want to mess around. I'm not sure if that's considered "bi" or what..........
2006-09-17 09:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are normal. They don't mean a whole lot. Or at least they don't always mean what they sound like they would mean.
It is okay to have a fantasy that you never act out. Maybe you would never even THINK of living out this fantasy. It is through fantasy that we learn about ourselves, but only if you decide to DO these things do you need to start to question whether you might be lesbian or bisexual. And even then, maybe you're just open minded.
2006-09-15 11:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal--whether you end up being a 2 or a 10 on the Kinsey Scale.
-A psych instructor.
2006-09-15 14:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that happens a lot. I was a lesbian in school. Now that we are all older, a couple of my friends told me that they always wanted to throw me down back then... but they were to scared... $hit if I only knew back then, they were hot...... Its normal and its a fun thought..
2006-09-15 10:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. There's not a thing wrong with entertaining such thoughts; you're exploring the idea in a safe way with someone who is, in your mind, a safe person.
2006-09-15 10:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by angk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like your atleast curious.Have you ever been with another woman? Just about every woman is curious as to be with another woman whether they are gay or not.Just because you think about it don't mean your a lesbian!
2006-09-15 13:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I think about being with my car, does that make me a Mazda? Being is doing or doing is being. Thinking isn't necessarily either one.
2006-09-15 11:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have weird thoughts - do you have fantasies - so you think too often - - is it detailed thoughts? Answer those questions and you will closer to your answer!
2006-09-15 10:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty normal if youre doin it the right way, it will only be abnormal when you feel that its uncertain
2006-09-15 10:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your bicurious it's okay..i am 2 and also know a lot...it's so normal these days
2006-09-16 12:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by wildbutterflychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋