2006-09-15 10:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by tammy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try getting a new friend. She sounds lame.
2006-09-15 10:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, that's not a friend.....that's a person only interested in herself. Self-centred and not at all genuine, lacking all qualities of a friend. It's time you show her that you don't actually need her and although it may seem difficult to make this decision, it is ultimately going to save you a hell of a lot of probable dissapointments. If she's done it before, she'll do it again, and I speak from experience because I once where you are...but closing one door will open another. She's inconsistent and insincere, and if she keeps coming back to you...it shows you that you must be a person possessed of the true meaning of frienship and she is therefore not worthy of your kindness. Forget her and let continue to lurk in her shallow lifestyle, you need to find someone, a true friend, who will encourage you and be true to you. And it may or may not happen instantaneously, but it will.......like will always attract like and karma will always punish or reward accordingly. Take it easy and sleep on this
2006-09-15 17:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is not being a good friend. take some time out and work on urself, so that u can meet better people:
the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 17:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This "best friend" is NOT a friend at all. If she were she would not be treating you this way she does. She probably only considers you her friend when she doesnt have anyone else to do things with. Find another friend, one that you can trust. I am sure there are other girls that would love to be friends with you. This friend is only wanting to be popluar it seems. With that kind of "friend" you dont need any enemies!!!!!
2006-09-15 17:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not really your friend. She's just an aquaintance. You're gonna have to stop relying on her to be your friend and actually make the effort to meet some new people. Join a group or something. You can always hit me up. I have time to chat.
2006-09-15 17:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find other friends. Don't just put your eggs in one basket. You need to build up your self confidence and self worth. Try to learn new things, new skills. If you are an interesting person you can attract friends and they will not leave you.
2006-09-15 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sea_turtle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find some new friends
2006-09-15 17:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Hello♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww that's so sad, maybe you should try to get other friends because in my point of view i think your friend can't really be trusted and if you think you can trust try to make your friendship stronger
2006-09-15 17:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by jamiefear_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get a new friend becasue she is nto truely being a good friend to you.
2006-09-15 17:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another one or try to be friends with a boy i have plenty who a boy an my friend an gurls
2006-09-15 23:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋