2006-09-15 10:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by guyslovehot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Man I hope not .......... once he realizes what a total dork I am then I wont have any ,So I say no its not wrong for the only friends you have be your kids , I could think of a lot worse . Lots of kids dont even hardly see or talk to there parents , if you can really say you are friends then its good as can be ..........Not a damn thing wrong with it , hell we need more of it .......Bravo to you
2006-09-15 10:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be "wrong" in the legal or even ethical sense, but it does deprive them of a role model of adult interaction, friendship and bonding. Often there may be disagreements or discomfort among friends, and how you resolve this, with your children watching, sets the tone for how they will interact with the world when they are adults.
It is sad though, especially for them.
2006-09-15 17:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=T ur missing out. it's awesome to have good relationships w/ ur kids, but u are also a "role" model to them... how can u encourage them to experience the world when u haven't, or don't have a good view of it?
if u are shy, here is my advice to you:
the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 17:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine, but maybe you should be more social. If you ever have a chance, try going to a proper party if you want. If your kids have friends, talk to their parents. I'm sure you will befriend them!
2006-09-15 17:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you divorced??
you need some adult interaction as long as your not doing illegal stuff drinking or being a immoral fool
its always good to have a friend
and even better if your best friend is your significant other
2006-09-15 19:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Larelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not!I mean it's always great to have a new friend but you can have whoever or how ever many you want!Hey!My mom is my friend!
2006-09-15 17:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong..just sad!
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use this link
http://www.lostcherry.com/join.php?friend=70628
2006-09-15 17:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by jen j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong, but would you want so kind of adult interaction?
2006-09-15 17:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. go get a significant other.
2006-09-15 17:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Justin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋