my baby father (our baby is 8 months)of four years cheated got a women pregant she is about 6 or 7 months he called and told me over the phone i asked him a bunch of question he admited to his mistake makes me a bunch promises like a house even agree to attend church i even asked if i could go to the hospital 2 see the baby being born he nodded yeah but looked like he wanted to say no but insisted i go, i weighted my cons with my pros and pros over ruled is it worth staying yeah i love him he is my baby father and now her to but what should i do this is part 2
2006-09-15 10:29:48 · 29 answers · asked by Try So Hard.................. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow, grilfriend...have more respect for yourself and close the door. yes you love him, but your heart is being damaged. he is no good for you... move forward
2006-09-15 10:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't need him you can love him & migth be the father of your baby BUT as a men he is nothing a men who promises & promises & that have cheat will never be an honest men..... You don't need to go see that other baby why??? hurt yourself move on & live your life forget about him & the bunch of fake promises because if he LOVES you then why??? cheating besides he knew he had a relationship & a son then where is the love?????
JUst forget about him take care of your baby & go to child support so at least he can help you supporting your baby do not get cash from him money order or child support order that way it will not affect you !!! GOOD LUCK & GOOD LUCK finding a REAL men !!! :)
2006-09-15 10:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you do me a favor?
Go back and read your question out loud.
Now does it even seem like that hard of a question?
He cheated on you and got another women pregnant!!
Yeah he is your baby daddy, but dont you think that you deserve much better!?!
2006-09-15 10:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating AND getting her pregnant is a VERY heavy con! There couldn't be enough pros to outweigh that one! Leave while you still have some dignity!
2006-09-15 10:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. I feel sorry for the other woman, because if you leave- he will not be fully happy with her- because he will constantly think of you and your baby....and if you stay...he will constantly think of her and her baby. He will be constantly going back and forth,...apparently that's where it's going, because you even want to see her. You will probably settle for an agreement- share him with her,...wow! I think you should leave...there's someone better for you out there.
2006-09-15 10:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with an attorney. His child support payments for the next 18 years will mean you will probably wind up supporting him if you stay with him.
2006-09-15 10:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M NOT GOING TO CALL YOU ANY NAMES OR TELL YOU WHAT TO DO. CAUSE A LONG TIME AGO I WAS IN THE SPOT YOU WAS IN I NO YOU ARE MAD AT HIM RIGHT NOW CAUSE HE IS HAVING ANOTHER BABY BY SOME OTHER WOMEN. BUT I SAY DON'T LET THAT ***** HAVE YOUR MAN WITH A FIGHT. CAUSE IN THE END YOUR CHILD WILL BE THE ONE WHO WILL BE HURT. DON'T LET THEM OTHER PEOPLE RUN YOUR LIFE. FOLLOW YOUR HEART GIRL.
2006-09-15 10:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by SHASON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get child support and leave him. He'll keep on getting every woman in the neighborhood pregnant.
2006-09-15 10:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-09-15 10:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to see the baby being born ?you are a total frootloop you should cease to exist you have no brains ,i cant say enough bad things about you
2006-09-15 10:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like the wind. For all you know there are more babies scattered around town that you don't know about yet.
2006-09-15 10:32:10 · answer #11 · answered by veraperezp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋