She say to me that she was going to peirce her lip today. And i asked her why? And she says bcuz she's always wanted to get her lip peirced. She's 13 yrs old. and she did. she peirced her lip. AT SCHOOL!!! IN CLASS!!! WITHOUT STERALIZING THE EARRING SHE STUCK THROUGH HER LIP!! OR WITHOUT ICE OR ANYTHING TO NUMB IT! i am pissed her! bcuz she can get it infected. she says she kinda sorta regrets doing it! and the worst part of all is: Her mom is extremely mean when it comes to stuff like that. even in general her mom is frickin mean to tori. and her mom is PREGNANT! AND THE BABY MIGHT BE BORN SOMETIME TODAY! OR SOON! and if tori's mom finds out that her own daughter peirced her lip without disinfecting it first even the fact that tori peirced her lip if her mom finds out sometime today tori won't be able to live to see tomorrow!!! should i be angry at tori? plus, tori never would've done that if this new girl at our school didn't have hers peirced tori NEVER would've!!
2006-09-15 10:28:54 · 3 answers · asked by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she said the reason why she did it is bcuz she's always wanted to get her lip peirced and she's never has the guts to peirce it before.
Trust me, no tori's not feeling left out. no, this does not need to be reported. and nobody feels safe when they talk to the counsler or any teachers at our school about their problems. first, of all if tori tells them to keep it a secret just between her and the counsler/teacher she is talking to... they go right out and tell the principal. and when he finds out about it.... he will call her mom and tell her mom what tori did. and tori does want her mom to find out!!!!!! so should i be angry or upset with tori. just cause she also wanted the attention. and that she would've waited until we were out of school or at least in high school?
2006-09-15 10:48:17 · update #1
sounds like Tori needs you to be a great friend right now. Maybe she is feeling left out at home because of the new baby. One thing that really bothers me is that you said "Her mom is extremely mean when it comes to stuff like that. even in general her mom is frickin mean to tori. Is this something that needs to be reported? Or has Tori tried talking with a counselor or teacher at school.
Good luck and be a good friend.
2006-09-15 10:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by lorna56dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to take it out then, put some disinfectent on it, and if all else fails put a small bandage over it and she can tell her mom she cut herself licking a knife and will never do it again.
Over all kids do stupid things some times, and they get in trouble, and some times they get infections. when I was about your age I did my bellybutton, and then had to take it out. Try to get her to take it out and clean it really well, and put some cream on it before it leaves a scar.
2006-09-15 10:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, Just talk to her why she did!
2006-09-15 10:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by shopperloverdrake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋