a husband when his mother has to move into a a senior living home and he can't go. but i say this we've been married 3 months and for those whole 3 months he lived with her . he found every excuse not to come and live with his new wife and well is mom an't pushing out of the nest no time soon and well im 4 months pregnant, and through with my marriage . how can i find another man with a newborn im not saying i need to right away, but it does hurt to just live alittle . oh and what can i say to my husband that he an't welcome in my home any more, he chose that path to walk on . he hurt me . and once i turn and walk away thats it im done. we all have our falts but i learn from mine. this message is part 2 of my other question: "Would it be wrong if i told my husband...
2006-09-15 10:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im not selfish just his wife , the mother of his baby . his mother an't that old where she can't fend for herself. she cant let him go and be a man and hes fine with that . he was never ready to become a father or a husband . and i thank his mother for that.
2006-09-15 10:29:57 · update #1
oh and me wanting a new man was not for real. i do fine by myself thank you.
2006-09-15 10:31:37 · update #2
WOW! Boy are you pathetic! Good luck finding a "sugar daddy" who will take care of you and some other guys baby.
2006-09-15 10:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no it sounds to me that you have married a man with MAMAS BOY SYNDROME if thats where he feels that he needs to be then leave him there but something sounds really unatural about this hes married and has a new baby on the way what was the purpose of him getting married in the first place and did you know that he had this problem before you married him,the answer to your question is yes you can move on with the baby but make sure he provides for the child and you will find a man who has no problem being with you and your baby and he will love the both of you,I think you know deep in your heart what you need to do next and that is take care of yourself and the baby during the rest of your pregnancy wish you and your soon to be new arrival well.
2006-09-15 11:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a newborn, you have enough of a responsibility without being HIS parent too. Contact an attorney, sue for full custody and ask him to give up his rights to the child so what ever man does come along can be a parent to your newborn.
2006-09-15 10:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he is wrong - *but* have you talked to him about everything and told him how you feel? Have you suggested counseling to work through the issues that he has? You should try everything you can before you throw in the towel and call it quits.
If you've tried everything, then just tell him that you are getting an annulment and that he is not welcome in your home anymore. Make sure you change the locks and everything and then start to move on with your life.
2006-09-15 10:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm so what ur saying is your husband lives with his mother! now read what i just wrote! that is not right, I'm sorry t is not his mothers fault it is his! yes i agree that u should get rid of him he is still a child and Will problem be no help with the baby you will have. what u should tell hI'm is, im sorry but i am having a baby, i don't want to be married to one! good luck!
2006-09-15 11:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by trish p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the same, leave him. You should come first to him. Plus having a child, that should make him excited to be home with his family. So yeah lose him. Don't be so easy and eager to find another man though. Take time and find a good man. Sorry about your situation. Good luck.
2006-09-15 10:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Susa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and level with him. Tell him you expect more from him as a husband, and if he can't live up to that, then you don't see a point in continuing to be married, because he sure isn't acting like a husband to you and your child.
2006-09-15 10:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why did you marry a man that is still hanging on to his mother's apron?
2006-09-15 10:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably not entirley his fault his mother is also a big part of his life you know! lol but he is a b*i*t*cH for not at least coming!! wtf??? its liek he is basically focusing only on hima and his mother...if he hurt you ....how....physically or something..your pregnant. does he even know what the f*u*c*k being pregnant is like !?!?!? lol and if u want you dont even hae to have a baby you can just do abortion or w.e
2006-09-15 10:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by michelle =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on to him, because no other man will ever like you. You are lucky you got him really drunk that one night and got him to bang you.
2006-09-16 09:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋