2006-09-15 10:11:54 · 24 answers · asked by Student 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are SO MANY things more important then virginity.
2006-09-15 10:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was a virgin when I got married, My husband was not, This cause alot of self dought for me , He was not a nice guy though, I felt good about myself but, self consious that he had been with other woman before and he was maybe comparing me, It ended up though that I was really great in bed and he was kind of Blah, you never really know at the start of a rlationship anyways, I am still glad I waited, FOR ME! I did that for no one else, Thats what you have to do it for yourself!, Don't do it because you feel like you future husband will love you more or it will be more special, Most cases Men are a little shallow, and they wont think its as great a thing as it really is, I did it for me, and now when Highschool sllep around stories are passed I am the only one who waited, the other girls shared themselves too young, and now admit they should have waited. You cannot go back ever, so just deciede whats right for you.....
2006-09-15 17:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Flagstaff mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard question... i was not a virgin and and I am glad of it!! I have heard horror stories from friends who were virgins... their wedding nights were ALL horrible. But, i guess that you both would get to learn with each other about sex (if you both are virgins that is). Its a personal choice, just know that sex is a wonderful thing between two people who love each other. (and really hot with strangers! haha just kidding)
2006-09-15 17:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by whaaatthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a good idea. What if you discover that you do not like sex or don't like sex with that person. The first time is never good and that could stay with you for a long time. I think that marriage should be forever so you are better off knowing what you are getting up front.
2006-09-15 17:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by blzabobb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! The man loves to be the one and only, before and after marriage.
2006-09-15 17:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have two friends who went through this and it just made them curious as to what else was out there as the years progressed. A third ended in divorce and she discovered that sometimes the grass is greener.
2006-09-15 17:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by aries_2_a_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait, you may realize there is no actual sexual chemistry between the two fo you. This is too important to leave as a surprise. Find out before getting married!
2006-09-15 17:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont really think so..it a state of mind that makes you think that it will improve. A lot depends on what culture you come from..asian women are preferred virgin.
2006-09-15 17:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you, but make sure the courtship ends in marriage no longer than 2 yrs. Use protection.
2006-09-16 04:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does one answer that question; you cant compare yourself having sex before you married and having sex after you married because people can only be one of them. How would you know what to improve from?
2006-09-15 17:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
premarital sex does tend to skew a person's view of their partner's prowess in the bedroom if they've had an extremely active sex life prior to marriage and the partner is not as experienced, the first experience can be anti-climactic.
2006-09-15 17:17:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋