Ok. I called my Bf's job this morning looking for him, and his boss told me that he didnt work there anymore. Yesterday he was supposed to work and didnt show up because his rides car broke down. Now the other day his boss had offered him the assistant manager position. And before that when my bf had decided us not living together would help our relationship, his boss had found him a place to live... so its not like his boss was a jerk, his boss was very nice. Now, my bf told me that he got fired for not showing up yesterday, but my mom thinks he quit because it doesnt seem logical for his boss to fire him for missing one day. (prior to this, i got a job making 13.15 an hour) so I'm wondering if all these things are co-incidents or if h quit because i would be making more money...... what do you guys think? and what should i do?
2006-09-15 09:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you normally trust your boyfriend? If you do, then you should believe him. If you don't, then your relationship has bigger problems than whether he is working or not, and why.
I hope everything works out all right.
2006-09-15 09:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think I have this straight in my head. Your boyfriend didn't want to live with you anymore. Then he said he was fired. I have just a question. Is what you said about his boss finding him a place to live did that come from your boyfriend or do you know that as a fact. To me it sounds like your boyfriend has a new girlfriend. You might want to do some more checking into this.
2006-09-15 17:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Ask him for the truth! And if he thought your not living together would HELP your relationship then you have bigger problems than you think. If you live together then either it is going to work or not. So if you get along better apart then you will never live together again? THAT'S JUST STUPID and it is a cop out. He wanted some freedom and did not have to balls to tell you. He is playing you honey. Get out while you can. Good luck.
2006-09-15 17:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what the truth is. Only that he sounds irresponsible. Keep your job and get yourself a nicer guy. Not living together would help your relationship? Yeah, sure. He's already moved on. You don't need him, I can tell you can do fine on your own.
2006-09-15 17:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find a punctual bf who doesn't miss a good chance for promotion at work.
2006-09-15 17:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like he's jealous that you'd earn more than him. If that is not the case, then he probably doesn't want you anymore.
2006-09-15 17:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit down with him and tell him he needs to tell you the truth and then listen to what he has to say and if you believe him fine, but if not tell him u not interested in a liar
2006-09-15 17:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Els M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser with no backbone in telling you the truth! get rid of him as soon as possible and find someone who will treat you right!
2006-09-15 16:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he got fired and all the other stuff he told you was bull sh**
2006-09-15 16:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to ask him whats going on.
2006-09-15 17:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋