I have been with my husband for 8 years and I always trusted him until he told me he kissed another girl and now it is like he is kindof trying to fix our realtion ship, but I am working alot harder than he is to fix it. well now I just dont feel like I can trust him know matter how hard I try I feel like he is lying to me.
2006-09-15 09:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately, trust is one issue that is not quick or easy to fix. Once the trust is gone, it takes a long time to re establish itself. He needs to prove both by his actions and words that he is worthy of your trust. For example, he is where he says he is supposed to be or even early sometimes. Marital counseling can help re establish trust. However, if he does not work with you on re establishing your trust, it will not happen that easy or not at all.
2006-09-15 09:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by dawncs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust there is no relationship. If you can not trust him to be honest than maybe you should not be with him. How did you find out he kissed another girl? If he told you then it shows his honesty if you found out another way then he may not be able to be trusted..Follow your heart but if you can not trust him completely and forgive their may be nothing left. You can not take him back fully unless you believe that he can be honest. If you feel he is cheating call it instinct your gut does not lie. good luck and remember your heart is like a compass it points in the right direction you just have to follow it.
2006-09-15 17:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by chick29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! I have tried to trust my husband but after the cheating and other things he has done to me I just can't trust him anymore. And he keeps proving to me that I can't trust him by his actions.
2006-09-15 21:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Born a Fox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel trust can be fixed! Good luck!
2006-09-15 16:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by crandle55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take time. And you have to "want" to trust him. And he has to prove it to you.
2006-09-15 16:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋