2006-09-15 09:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are implying does one learn from their mistakes, I sure hope so =) Prayers
2006-09-15 09:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, When you guys got married, I assume that you recited some sort of vows that said something about, "better or worse", right? Well during any kind of "worse" times or times when things are not ideal, this is the time that a married couple should show the love they say they have. My friend, if you haven't, take the time to write down exactly what you want to say to your wife, I mean really break it down to yourself first. Then talk to her. If you have already done that, then really ask yourself if you are ready to make to move towards divorce court. It is not fair of me to say that you should divorce her, that is a very personal decision. I guess you should ask yourself, how deep is your love for her? How long are you going to put up with her behavior. Also, remember that she might be going throught something personal herself. Maybe she is scared or stress out herself and just doesn't know exactly how to express it? You are the man and has the man it is your job to sometimes carry the marriage when things get rocky. Make any and all efforts to improve your marriage; that could mean giving her some space, repeatedly talking her, and even marriage counseling. My point is this, if you really love your wife and want your marriage, make sure you are leaving no stone unturned , so if you have to separate of divorce her, you will know that you gave it your all.
2016-03-27 03:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say most second marriages have a worse percentage rate than the first. Stay with the first marriage.
2006-09-15 09:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what happens in the first, if you married young etc and grew apart it is very possible that the 2nd marriage will be better than the first. Depends on situation.
2006-09-15 10:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to my first husband for 17 yrs, and stayed with him for different reasons fear-- of being alone ! fear -- because i said my vows in church! Also because he lowered my self esteem so much I felt worthless, and suffered with depression!
My 2nd husband is just wonderful, I love him truly, as does he me! I have been with him 5 yrs, and can't believe how happy we are! If you are unhappy in a marriage please don't waste your life, go and get a life! It's fantastic! i was 20 when I got married the fisrt time! I can't remember having the same taste in shoes let alone men!
2006-09-15 10:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that its a solution of a problem, but if this time around uve found True Love.
2006-09-15 13:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Petal62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my 2nd lasted a lot longer than the 1stbut my 5th was the longest
and yes you still make mistakes
2006-09-15 09:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll take 2 on that one...thanks
2006-09-15 09:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a chav never learns
2006-09-19 00:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋