one of my best friends started going out with this guy in our class. all she does is seem to talk about him & sit by him at lunch.
(I've known him all my life, and we get along) and she ignores me when hes around. Im sick and tired of it, and its only been 1 day. I tried to talk to her about it, and she tries to cover up the fact that she was ignoring me and says that she didnt hear me ! its happend 5 times in one day, and i know for a fact that she heard me!! shes now mad and not talking to me...what should i do??
2006-09-15 09:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by indianschick24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This happened with her other boyfriend too., and that was when they had been goin out for like 4 months..
2006-09-15 10:17:54 · update #1
She is excited about going out with this guy. Let her be. Also let her know that you are still there also. If she is ignoring you let her know again that she is doing it. But she is going to talk about him. Tell her to tone it down a bit if really starts to bother you that much. But if you don't let her talk to you about him she may not talk to you at all. But hey that's my opinion.
2006-09-15 09:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by meg10_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trip things like this are gonna happen more often than you'd like first ask yourself is she really ignoring you or are you experiencing a little jealousy because this dude that is your friend too is paying More attention to your friend than you..? jealousy is something no one really wants to admit especially when it's toward our friends, if that's not the case then know this you guys are growing up and the older you get your friendship is gonna go through alot of changes, just be cool because in the scope of things this really isn't a big deal she likes this guy wait til you come across a dude your really feeling and you fell like he's feeling you back for a while no one else will even exist that's just how it is it's apart of growing up. In the mean time cut your girl some slack.
2006-09-15 16:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to think about it. If she's going to ditch you over a guy is she worth it? Not what I would call a good friend or a best friend. If its only been 1 day, its the heat of infatuation, but still, reltaionships come and go, your friends are supposed to be there forever.
If its really bugging you, go talk to her, call her, anything, but stay calm cool and collected.
2006-09-15 16:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by tiggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends.
You can either start talking to the guy when she ignores you or just get over it.
I would start talking to the guy because that would make her mad and realize what she is doing.
2006-09-15 16:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calmly go up to her and tell her that you need to have time for your friend AND your boyfriend.
it's just the excitment of getting a new boy friend.
dont worry she'll come around soon.
to get back at her..ignore her when she's talking to you. lol.
Just remember--friends are forever and boys are whatever.
2006-09-15 16:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a new boyfriend and of course she is going to want to spend every minute of every day with him... after it grows old and they break up you'll be the one to pick up the pieces.. unless she continues to treat you like garbage.. then I'd find some new friends...
2006-09-15 16:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by shanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-09-15 16:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop her as a friend. She's not worth it anyways. You told her to stop and she didn't. If she learns it the hard way then she learns it the hard way!!!
2006-09-15 16:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a hummer. It might not fix the problem but he'll surely enjoy it
2006-09-15 16:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by pervcowboy77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try to talk to her again or you can find a new friend
2006-09-15 16:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Allison J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋