My best~friends brother and my sisters are like oil and vinegar. So today, they were playing with a bunch of other people and her brother (I really don't know why). Then the brother gets knocked down by someone else and he blames it on my sister. Now my bffl is taking her brothers side for this and I HAVE to take my sisters. We might get banned from playing with eachother. I am so sad right now. I don't want this to happen. What should I do? I'm so confused!!!!
2006-09-15 09:33:20 · 11 answers · asked by Vanessa<3 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also, I wasn't there when it happened so I don't even know who pushed him.
2006-09-15 09:35:37 · update #1
Alright, honey. From what I can gather of your question, neither you nor your friend were there during the game. Therefore, neither of you should be taking sides -- no matter whom is related to whom. This should be settled between those involved and your parents. You two, as friends, are not in control of your siblings actions -- no matter what anyone says. If they choose to act childish, then that is of their own will. You should not take the blame for what they do and it should not effect how you and your friend spend time with eachother other than making sure your siblings arn't together if they cannot interact in a plesant way.
2006-09-15 09:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by universetiger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like a stupid situation. The best thing I can say is that you and your best friend should work things out between just the two of you so that no matter how much your siblings may fight, you can still remain friends. As for the siblings, agree with your friend that it's probably best to just keep them away from each other and then try to do it.
I wish you the best of luck. Such situations are always difficult. I'm sure you'll do fine though. *hugs*
2006-09-15 16:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe like, apologize? This is the hardest to do regardless of who did what to who but when you said: like "oil and vinegar", just keep in mind you catch more flies with honey than vinegar and...
Be true to your school!!!
2006-09-18 19:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by The Global Community 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him that your sister did not push him down and make the one who did confess and you guys are fighting about somebody getting knocked down wow
2006-09-15 16:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Darius G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stick to the truth ......there is no reason that you too can not still be friends during this just agree not to talk about it with each other and try to keep them two apart for a while...........things should get better
2006-09-15 16:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cjunslady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Yahoo Answers: Please create a new category Teenagers with Relationship Angst (Caution: Only for the mentally-challenged)!
I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-09-15 16:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't go near the other kids for a couple days and see how they are when you are around them again.
2006-09-15 16:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
**** happens.
that guys a prick. if your best friend is siding against you in this instead of talkin it out than she obviously not your friend.
stick with your sister. friends come and go.
2006-09-15 16:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by bored 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stick with family and get over it...make new friends...
2006-09-15 16:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you could tell their parents what happend
2006-09-15 16:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Allison J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋