i know a guy whom is married with 3 children and he keeps cheatin on his wife. he denies it to her but she always finds out and she is still with him. he swore up and down that he would never do it again and till this day he is still cheatin on his wife. now from what i heard he loves this girl that he is seein and has been talkin to her for the past 3 years or so. WHY do you think he keeps doing this? supposely he doesnt want to divorce her because of kids. do u think that makes sense?? Why do guys do this? What do you think?????
2006-09-15 09:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by aimeeg_2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only reason i ask is because his wife is a friend of mine. i was just curious why guys do this if they really love someone.
2006-09-15 09:20:03 · update #1
Because some men are morons. The wife is encouraing this behavior by staying with him after so many times. She needs to leave him, take the kids, and let him suffer his own consequences.
2006-09-15 09:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his wife knows and still stays with him, then that's that. She'll wise up some day. Why don't you introduce her to someone that can remind her that not all men are dogs. Find a nice guy for her, once the husband sees that "two can play that game" he may come to his senses. But, by then, she may not want him anymore!
2006-09-15 16:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Golden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behavior you've describe is selfish, he won't change it because he keeps getting away with it. Your friend is dependent on her husband and won't give him an ultimatum. So truthfully the problem is as much hers as his. She knows it. She won't admit it. She keeps hoping he'll change.. He won't.
Narcissists and Sociopaths tend to go after their desires without thought of how it effects others.. She needs to wake up and dump his ***. He was raised by parents who likely gave him everything he desired, he was never disciplined as a child and will tend to act as a child..
BTW, women can do this too
2006-09-15 16:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not the only ones that do this. women are just as bad as men. I know, my wife has cheated three times.
2006-09-15 16:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Pilot 202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His doing it because she's allowing him and he'll keep doing it until she have enough of it.Guys do this to us women because some of them do like to cheat and some of us women allowed it to happen
2006-09-15 16:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell the wife everything and that she should divorce him guys do this because they need sexual feeling that sometimes their wifes can supply this but its still sick and wrong
2006-09-15 16:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is bored at home and she is fun. Maybe he is just a selfish *** who wants the best of both worlds. Maybe he truly cares for both of them.
2006-09-15 16:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by Debra J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what he's doing ...just KEEP being a
friend and KEEP your nose out of it !
2006-09-15 16:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she lets him, he'll continue to do it.
2006-09-15 16:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by watergirl54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT HE IS GOING?
2006-09-15 16:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋