there is this girl at shcool and she is popular and she talks to u and u talk back and she seems nice but i don't know if she is mi friend wut do u think?
2006-09-15 09:11:44 · 17 answers · asked by white panther 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's just someone you talk to casually at school, I wouldn't necessarily call her a friend just yet, but it sounds like she could be open to being friends.
If you start calling each other outside of school or start sitting together at lunch, then I think you could safely call her a friend.
For now, she's just an acquaintance.
2006-09-15 09:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the word you are looking for is "acquaintance". An acquaintance is someone you know in passing and have associated with a few times. A friend is someone you are very close to and have spend time together. Acquaintances can become your friend, but being friends take time, like being in love takes time as well.
She very well could be nice to you even if she is popular. If you would like to get to know her better and become friends with her, ask her if she wants to hang out after school or something. Being popular is often confused with being well-known. You can be popular and be a snob and think you are better than everyone, or be popular in a sense of, everyone knows you and you are well liked for genuine reasons.
If she is someone you feel you could become friends with, ask her to hang out for a cup of coffee or something. It doesn't sound like you have anything to lose, but you have something to gain.
2006-09-15 16:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her and some friends out for coffee or something, and then decide. Remenber, a friend is someone true and honest and makes you feel really good about urself! Trust me though before its too late, dont spend your school years yearning after the most popular kids, because i can honestly say that all those 'cool' kids i so wanted to be like, ALL turned out washed up and ugly..
2006-09-15 16:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by PennyLane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends "popular". Is she popular, as in thinks she is better than everyone else and talks about everyone? If someone talks about everyone to you, most likely they talk about you to everyone. If "popular" by a bad rep- stay away! You dont want to get a bad rep either, If "popular" for great personality, she could probably become a great acquatance
2006-09-15 16:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not much info to go on...but maybe the potential for a friendship is there. Why don't you ask her to hang out or something. Slowly build the friendship. Friendships dont happen over night.
2006-09-15 16:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by Debra J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I mean if she wants to know all your likes and dislikes, there is a possibility that she is a friend. But don't pour your heart out to her, because if she isn't really your friend, then she might use it against you. You know? Just see her reactions to you. Does she make eye contact, does she reply, that kind of stuff.
2006-09-15 16:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Queen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. shes popular they do that because they want 2 seem nice and popular at the same so more people will liker
2006-09-15 16:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by brianna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like an acquaintance. someone you know of but don't really know. you two hang out or eat lunch together or go to each others house then that could be a friend.
2006-09-15 16:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by fin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her popularity cloud your judgement, be careful, just speak to her when she speaks to you and say hello. See if anything develops from that, but don't class her as a friend just yet, you don't want to get hurt.
Take Care.
2006-09-15 16:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her. She might be nice to you and all but she also can turn her back and talk about you. I wouldn't feed her to much info on yourself if I was you. Good Luck!
2006-09-15 16:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋