my bf is pakistany.we've met in my country during his studies. i was 17 than and we had a relation of 4 years. he had to go in UAE after his studies but we didnt broke up. 5 years past since he left.i went last year in dubai,the love was still there.we talk every night on chat.the problem is for the last year he says he wil come here or i wil go there but every time we have a plan something comes up and we post pone. this happened this month also..we had it all planned to go there in september but we post poned it..is like he promices me something and that something never comes to happen..what to do?
2006-09-15 08:53:31 · 13 answers · asked by dafneeselena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a difficult one, it sounds as if he still loves you, however the big problem you have to face is the huge difference in culture. You must ask him to be totally frank with you - just incase his family are arranging a wedding for him. I so hope everything turns out as you wish.
2006-09-15 09:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its ment to be it'll come around... Until then to stress over it...easier said than done. Do things for yourself, get another job, go out with friends more, go to school, etc... Just keep yourself busy and if hey someone else comes in the picture great, if he comes back great.
The key thing is dont wait around for a guy. They are not worth it. If they truly care for you they will come around!
2006-09-15 09:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that actions speak louder than words. It sounds like your boyfriend has moved on. He probably has a new girlfriend but doesn't want to disappoint you or hurt your feelings. You should: GET OUT and move on with your life. Sorry, but I believe the best advice is brutally honest.
2006-09-15 08:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you ask the question. Should I stay or should I go.. you should ALWAYS go.
EVERY TIME. Why? because something inside you is telling you something is wrong. and you need to listen to that voice and act on it.
2006-09-15 08:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe in this love, then go make the effort to go see him!!! But if excuses keep preventing you from seeing him, maybe you shouldn't be together.
2006-09-15 08:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hez avoiding u
if u really wanna leave him then b4 leving teach him a lesson n go dump him on his face
2006-09-15 08:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful_crystal_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you told him that you still feel romantic about him? if not do so. Then you need to tell him "Hey can i count on you to come through with things?" Then talk to him about how you feel about it. If he dosent come through then dont waste your time
2006-09-15 08:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on personaly, but do what youre heart tells you while using youre head first.
2006-09-15 08:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously... TELL him how you feel. HOnesty is the best policy!
2006-09-15 08:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweet thang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him? Tell him your biological clock is ticking like this ... tick, tick, tick ...
2006-09-15 08:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋