Whenever I ask a question about having more sex with my wife, there are always a few answers that address hygiene.
2006-09-15 08:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look, idiots!
I said I get answers HERE saying that! A lot of women HERE say that so I was wondering if it is more of a problem than guys suspect!
2006-09-15 08:52:42 · update #1
yes
2006-09-15 08:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by jettemead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know about your wife but smells are sensual. Cologne or great smelling soap turns me on. I'm more likely to jump on him after he's gotten out of the shower than when he gets home from work. There's nothing wrong with that. I have not turned him down due to smell, but I may not have been as into it as another time. You are less likely to notice your smell than she is because you are around it 24/7. Isn't it true that when you put on cologne or perfume for a woman that after a while you can't smell it anymore even though other people still can. you become accustom to your own environment so to speak. If you live in your house you may not notice certain smells because you are used to it, but if you leave for a few days and then come back, it smells different at first. A person can not help with turns them on and what doesn't. Just because my husband smells after work doesn't mean I don't find him sexy as I always do, but I may not get all hot and bothered if you know what I mean. So here's the thing. how long does it take to jump in the showe and soap up? Not long right? If you want to have more sex and you know that your wife doesn't like body odor, take a shower before you go to bed at night. It's simple. It's not something that needs to be debated and it's not worth a fight. She can't help what turns her on, but you can help whether or not you take a shower. If this isn't her problem then I hope it's something else that is fixable. But yes hygiene can play a mojor role in a person's sex life. But the only way to know for sure what her real issue is to ask. I she's anything like me, I got through different phases. There may be a few weeks where I am just not in the mood, then there are a few weeks where I can't get enough of it. I hope your sex life improves if it's not what you really want. Good luck!
2006-09-15 15:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband works very very hard in the heat all day. I personally like the way he stinks but no I wouldnt have sex with him untill he cleaned up. My husband has fantastic personal hygine. After work and i dont know if you know this but women love a man that is clean and smells good. My hubby uses the axe body spray ohh dam if do my best to fu@k him all day. haha good luck get clean and get some.
2006-09-15 17:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when a guy and a girl are just dating then guys are more concerned about their appearance and personal hygiene, just as girls are, but when they get serious they can expose themselves for the slobs that they really are. This can be a big turn off.
2006-09-15 16:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, let me get this right.
You come on to the Internet and declare to the world that your wife is not having sex with you because of hygiene.
Wow dude, you stink big time!
2006-09-15 15:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's HARD or impossible to tell what you smell like yourself it's one of those things others need to tell you. My friends mom told me to smell your blankets pillow after sleeping all night that is what you smell like. In general i think men have TERRIBLE foot Oder they don't seem to notice at all. If your wife says you smell TRUST her. Try taking better personal care brushing your teeth deodorant maybe a male body spray FOOT deodorizer IN your shoes. I love the way my husband smell it's a turn on to smell him. He is very up and up and being clean we both shower before work in the A.M in the evening sometime before getting ready 4 bed.
2006-09-15 15:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I particularly am one who does not want a man with bad hygiene.
2006-09-15 16:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably just you. ive never not had sex with a boyfriend down to hygiene. you need to shower more and use deodorant.
2006-09-15 15:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think women smell more but a penis can get a nasty smell to if your mate doesn't wash the head ok
2006-09-16 02:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by JOHANN B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because generally we have a higher metabolic rate.
2006-09-15 15:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Fjalar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋