I just started talking to one of my old friends again but we haven't been talking for that long & she knows that guy that I really like & I think he's her friend but I'm not sure & they might hang out sometime or sometimes soon.
She doesn't know that I really like him & I didn't even talk to her about him yet. Should I talk to her & tell her that he won't talk to me & have her talk to him about it or ask him why???
Why or why not???
2006-09-15 08:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no
2006-09-15 08:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jill Whoa!!! Slow down! Two's company and three's a crowd! Do your own talking to him! Let him mention it to your friend if he likes you! Doesn't sound like you girls are to "close" anyway and who knows what's going to be said if "she" talks to him! Besides if "they're" friends and you get in the middle of it there may be some bad feelings on her end and who knows how she may react! She make like him too! Maybe he's not talking to you because he likes her? He knows that you're her "friend" and doesn't want to start trouble! If you talk to him and he doesn't talk to you, there's a "reason" and "sorry" it could just be her!
2006-09-15 16:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must have been a reason why you and your friend didn't talk for a long time. I had a friend in High School we were like best friends and now we outgrew each other. We went on diffirent paths and we have nothing in commin anymore, when I see her I would just say "Hi" then walk pass.Unless....Well she hang out with a qute guy who is'nt her boyfriend. I would ask her strait in her face what that guy's number is, and when she give it to me I would say thanks and goodbuy, I wouldn't make her my best friend for something like that.
If you really like this guy go about it without your "friend's" help, try to get his number on your own, it woud be crual just to use the friend to get a guy's number.Or ask your friend straight.
But really try to get his number a other way you must have seen him without your friend hanging around him.
2006-09-15 15:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by CatScratch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for a couple of reasons.
First, she might think the only reason you started talking to her again was to get info about the guy.
Second, she might like him herself and might undercut you - ya never know. Or, she might decide she likes him since you do. People are strange about that stuff.
2006-09-15 15:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by hausfrau31557 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo,heck no.
if u wanna talk to him do it urself,he'l hate u if ur friend does it fo u.
2006-09-15 15:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure... its ur risk!
2006-09-15 15:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by ~VeNs~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋