you both were already friends before he got involved you had feelings then and still do now, even though he's already taken.
2006-09-15 08:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by staci p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he's taken you should back off. think about if he were yours and a girl he was friends with went for him. you wouldn't be happy. wait until he's available and maybe you two and go for it then
2006-09-15 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love triangles are very messy. If he is taken then part of you job as a human being is to respect his partner which means not invading certain boundaries. You cannot take something that does not belong to you in the first place. Constant desire to receive to the self alone creates a bottomless pit, a black hole that eventually leaves us in darkness.Science says that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, for ever cause there is an effect. The effects of our behaviour always come back to us in full measure. Often times problems in a person life stem from actions in the past.
2006-09-15 09:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but you really need to stay in tune with your emotions and feelings on the matter as they evolve over time. You may find that it is painful to be around them, or perhaps you will be fine with it.
Not everyone is with the person that they love.
2006-09-15 08:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really it is not possible.
It is until you get the thought of it out of your head and start looking at him not as a hunk than looking at him as your best friends boyfriend and not up for grabs.
2006-09-15 08:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by malrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible I've done it. Trouble is to try to keep your cool because chances are you may be the first that he may confide in when things aren't going great.
2006-09-15 08:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I find it very hard to do. I attack my ex-bf even though we are just frineds cuz we still get really horny around each other.
2006-09-15 08:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is called respect, the same way you would like to be respected.
2006-09-15 08:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Classico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would drive yourself crazy and eventually he would see the want in your eyes, it might happen nut its wrong in all aspects,,,
NO FRIENDS and tell him why.
2006-09-15 08:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard, u need 2 tell him the truth about ur feelings if not u will regreat it
2006-09-15 08:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by shelmustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible. ive been there. stay away somewhat.. anyway .. he probably wont be taken forever
2006-09-15 08:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by swtpnaykisz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋