I just started high school this year, and two of my good friends from jr high are in my gym class. They were never really friends before, they just knew eachother but didn't really talk or hang out, but this year they have every single one of their classes together. I was always good friends with both of them, but now since they are together all day and I am only with them for one class, they have become closer and left me out in the dust. They still talk to me and stuff, but when we have to pick partners I always end up alone because they are the only two good friends I have in that class. I'm starting to feel really left out. What should I do? One of them can be mean at times, so I don't think its a good idea to talk to them about it. Thanks to anyone who can help.
2006-09-15 08:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is there any way i can take care of it while still being their friend? i hate that thought of loosing them, they've always been good friends of mine.
2006-09-15 08:36:00 · update #1
Well dear your definitely not the first person that's ever happened to, but the good thing about High School is there thousands of people there and there from other schools in stuff so still be there friends but, make your own instead of putting all your energy into trying to figure out what happen make new friendships happen. Also your getting older it's a whole other atmosphere and people change and grow apart so don't trip. While your in high school you'll have friends that come and go. If your friends are your true friends they'll come around. Welcome to your first taste of the real world.
2006-09-15 08:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by sky g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sucks, but it's life. Think about friends you might have had in grade school, but didn't anymore when you got into junior high. Well, friends from JH may or may not remain through HS.
It's a stupid, lame cliche, I know, but real friends would never shun you. All you can do is be friendly to them and not get all possessive like chicks do (whether it be a guy OR girlfriends).
Don't be afraid to develop new friendships because some friends made at this stage will or won't be around when you move onto the college level. It'll be the same deal there, and after college when you start getting jobs and moving and stuff. See what I'm saying? Life is a series of steps, dude.
2006-09-15 15:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lawn Jockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is just act like it doesn't bother you. You are a freshman and have a chance to make tons of friends. You should make as many friends as you can and just forget about them. If they were your true friends then that would have never happened.
2006-09-15 15:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a lot of people and make as many friends as possible as quickly as possible and you shouldn't be alone for long you shouldn't fell bad because you made new friend it's a new start get more and new friends
2006-09-15 15:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about them n move on... you will make new friends very quickly!!! i did!! n im in a highschool also! soo dont worry... you will make new friends!
2006-09-15 15:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by babi_blonde_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends....friends sometimes grow apart...sometimes friends get jellous of other friends...
2006-09-15 15:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋