Will I ever get noticed...?

Question

I have very pretty freinds. I'm not sure if I'll ever get attention from guys. What do you think I should do?

Answer 1

YES you will. but what kind of guys are gonna notice you, that's the question. u want to attract Confident, Quality, Good guys right? :) then u gotta take care of yourself first: become a Confident Quality Good person, woman, friend, daughter, sister, everything! and u will definitely show yourself, and the world, that u are Awesome.

:) so, first step, i believe, is to work on ur Appearance. it does wonders in improving ur self confidence. so, work out, exercise, try on makeup, take care of ur skin, get a nice haircut. try on flattering clothes, look at magazines, ask friends for advice, ask people who work at shops what is "in", etc. the better you Look, the better you feel, and u won't be as shy at least in the Looks department!

next, work on your brain. study harder, keep an open mind, read more, pay attention to the news, be able to discuss any topic, and Think, and have ur own views and opinions. this will help ur confidence in what you have to say, and u won't feel as "dumb" or immature cuz u are working on your brain.

once u feel better about ur looks and ur knowledge, start practicing talking more w/ friends, family, and eventually strangers. feel comfortable w/ urself, and don't judge others; try to be nice and respectable, but also seek out things; learn more, become involved in activities, groups, hobbies.

:) as u continue working and building urself to be just an all around, Great person, u will FEEL better about life. and u know, when u are Healthy, Positive, Happy person, u Attract those kinds of people! and u will be strong enough to filter out the negative ones; when friends are mean to u, or not "cool", because u have respect and confidence for urself, u can choose who is a good friend, and who u want to distance urself from.

good luck, and make sure you feel Great about yourself. that way, if someone does notice you, u'll know he thinks u are worth it. but it starts with You. u have to feel "worth it", and then u can look for a guy who u think is Worth it too! :)

Answer 2

Yes...is the simple answer to that question. Firstly, you need to stop comparing yourself to your friends...beauty isnt everything...after all...we will grow old some day and no matter how pretty a person is....it will not last. Plus, if a guy is only going to notice you for your looks, they wont be worth it anyway because let's face it...everyone just wants someone to accept them for who they are. If you want to get noticed, be more confident....why? from my past experience...i found that guys like girls who are self-confident because they tend to be more straight talking and fun ...dont hold back your own personality or change yourself just because YOU feel your friends are more pretty...you probably have a quality that is better than all of them.
You never know...someone might have already noticed you but you just dont know yet :) Good luck at being you!

Answer 3

I would say most of my mates are good looking lads, i'm not gay but i can see and i know most girls would probably find them more physically attractive than me.

However, the number of girls i've been out with, had relationships with, pulled in clubs, etc is double my friends.

I look after myself, buy good quality clothes, i have bags of confidence and will just go and chat to anybody, personality plays a big part.

Ok, try this for starters.

Don't smoke
Don't chew gum
Don't get any Tatoos on your arms
Don't wear cheap clothes
Don't wear anything too tarty.
Don't make it obvious, men can sense 'desperation'and you'll end up with an player.

The main one is DON'T SMOKE!!!

If you see a guy you like the look of just smile at him, then smile again a bit longer.
If you can pluck up the courage go and say hello.

A really good tip is when he goes to the bar to get served, you go to buy a drink too and stand right next to him., it breaks the ice and you can easily back off if you need to coz you just wanted to get a drink.

Don't worry about too much what your friends look like, in fact you should compliment them and you can then ask their opinion on what your wearing, etc.

So sort out your look, walk tall and don't be a wall flower so you'll shine above your friends.

Remember, comfidence, confidence, confidence, if you don't feel it, then fake it.

There are millions of men all with different tastes in women, i'm sure there will be more than enough for you.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

Be more confident in yourself...

Guys probably think your pretty but are to scared to come up to you and say anything cause they are scared of rejection. The ones that do come up to you may only want one thing.

My best friends bf told me this, about me. I thought about it for a little while and have decided that he was right.
Most of the guys that I know and have dated were exactly like this.

But seriously. You have to show that your confident and you'll look 10 times better. Confident girls glow, it just makes you look pretty.

Good Luck! Cause you know you are a beautiful young lady!

Answer 5

If you've got pretty friends that's great the guys are there for sure. You need to be yourself and use your personality because that's a girls greatest asset. When a guy tires of the pretty dumb stuff he looks for someone real and dependable to spend his life with. Your day will come.

Answer 6

Be yourself sweetie. Beauty really does come from within. And yes you will eventually get noticed. Just make sure it's for the right reasons and by the right man. You'll know. Life's a trip...just don't fall

Answer 7

Be who you are and love yourself. Just try to have confidence in yourself and always have a positive attitude. When you go out dont expect anything. Go out to have fun with your friends and not compete. Guys will find you attractive if you show you have confidence. It's all in the attitude.

Answer 8

Well, that's a heart rending question. I doubt that any of your friends are prettier than you, they're probably just more confident.
Why not try and stand a little taller and smile, I bet you'll be noticed pretty darn quick.

Answer 9

I hope you find that your personality - how kind you are, how compassionate you are, how happy and friendly you are - will get you notived 100 times more than just being pretty. Pretty girls may get attention in the beginning, but smart girls keep them coming back!

Answer 10

You wanna wear high heels and very short skirts, no matter how bad you think you look you'll definitely get attention from guys.