2006-09-15 08:20:22 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. You should talk to her about it. Find out why she's not interested.
2006-09-15 08:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO, go to counseling, I know that sometimes it can be completely something not even connected with my husband and I won't want sex. It may be something you are doing wrong and she doesn't like sex but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. What if she was hospitalized and you couldn't have sex with her for months and months would you have an affair? You married for better or worse. DON'T DO IT. Set up a romantic meal and discuss it gently and keep an open mind. Seek counsiling.
2006-09-15 08:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason she is not having sex with you. That's for you and your wife to figure out together. I can only offer this one piece of advise: the way to her vagina is through her heart. It's the small things in life. Wild flowers cost what....$8 at the supermarket? Emptying the dishwasher doesn't cost anything. Kiss her in the middle of her sentence. My husband is very sweet and at time romantic (not 24/7- just enough). Try it before you go and permanently damage your marriage.
2006-09-15 08:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not okay to have an affair, talk to her and find out what is the problem maybe go out somewhere , maybe she is bored with the way how you have sex, try different things but no dont have an affair stay with your wife .
2006-09-15 08:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by VETTEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love goes beyond sex. Cheating should never be acceptable. Focus on more important things. And there might be a reason why she won't have sex with you anymore. Maybe something you can fix.
2006-09-15 09:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,people. Listen up.You're all going to see a side of me you haven't seen before. For all you men out there who ask this same question,here is my emphatic answer.I am REALLY TIRED of married men whining and bawling around like babies if their wives say no to sex.Give it a freaking rest,and get over it already. If sex is the only thing you think is important in a marriage,then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
Now that I got that off my chest,I feel better.Thanks for letting me vent.
2006-09-15 08:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not okay to have an affair. If you're basing the entire marriage on sex, then I suggest you get a divorce and find someone to satisfy your needs. Good Luck...you're going to need it.
2006-09-15 08:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it's not working out then get a divorce, or seek some help because sex is part of being in a relationship, but it is not ok to have an affair
2006-09-15 08:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by raffi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its never ok to have an affair and i think you don't truly love her anymore, she's like a favorite pair of shoes, u keep them cuz u depend on them always being there.
I think you need to talk to her about it, express how important it is for the 2 of u to be together and go from thre.
2006-09-15 08:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! If your wife won't sleep with you anymore then you need to figure out why and do something about it!! Marriage is way more than sex!
2006-09-15 08:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO IT ISN'T! Ask you wife what's wrong. Maybe there's something wrong with the relationship that you don't know. Talk it out. If you love your wife then talk to her and make it work.
2006-09-15 08:28:59 · answer #11 · answered by ladyrose31474 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋